Im Afraid......

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  1. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    Well, this girl I know has been talking to me a lot lately about having sex with her. She isnt really one of the prettiets girls you will see, but I figure for a first time, what could it hurt? Only thing is, is that I dont know if she is kidding or not, but I am about 80% sure she wants to. Only thing is I am sorta small in that certain region and I am afraid of being laughed at.

    Any advice?
     
  2. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Take it step by step. I would recommend a heavy make out session in a place where you cant have sex but u have some privacy. Like the movies, VIP area in a club, maybe someones back patio. Just make sure she plays with your stuff. This will give her a good idea of ur size. if the afterwards she still showing interest in u. Then u know ur good to go. If she blows u off, well, then u know what she is thinking.
     
  3. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    Well I am friends with her and this would be like...I guess just friendly experimental sex. We are both 16.
     
  4. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    Small= Penis Size
     
  5. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I think he means actual size in inches.
     
  6. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    dont worry about it. the first time is SUPPOSED to be the worst time. after that tho, with more experience, you'll gain confidence and forget alllll about your tiny penor.

    im not built like a horse either, but i work well with what i got.
     
  7. Matrixballer04

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    oh...Well Im about 4 1/2" long and 4-4 1/2" around....:noes:
     
  8. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    "Anything worth doing should make you at least a little uncomfortable."

    Speaking from personal experience, the regret you will feel in the future for passing up this opportunity will stay with you far longer than any potential embarassment you may feel.

    How many times has a woman come right out and asked you to sleep with them? This doesn't happen everyday.
     
  9. Two toys

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    damn that sucks.

    but then again its big enough...

    being that you are both 16, i guarantee she isnt kidding around with you. at the same time though 16 is meh. i'd wait.
     
  10. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    Well she hasnt come right out and said it. It could have happened tonight too. I have been here all by myself for 5 hours. IDK...Im just afraid of what she would think of me. Not to mention how awkward it would be to talk to her during lunch at school.
     
  11. Matrixballer04

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    And not to mention Im a grower too. Im like 1" soft.....yea....that REALLY sucks ass
     
  12. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I 100% dont agree. Its like everything else. The more u do it the easier it gets.


    Go on and do this girl and get it over with. The sonner u start, the more experience u'll have.
     
  13. KungFool7

    KungFool7 keep driving—it's getting earlier

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    You'll have it for the rest if your life. Might as well get practice using it around people you're probably never going to see again and get good at it so when you are older and start getting serious with someone at least you have skills going for you, if not cock size.
     
  14. Yail Bloor

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    If she is wanting sex from you and you are too chicken to "take it to the hole" then I promise you she is going to be thinking worse of you than if she actually got see your penis.

    And there is a 99% she is more self-conscious about her body than you are.
     
  15. lauren

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    if you dont think you are ready, then dont do it. i dont know what your moral convictions are...but just go with whatever with which you feel ok.

    as for insecurities, sex sucks in the begining, but it gets better/easier at you gain experiance. is this girl a virgin? how much experiance does she have? what does she have for a basis of comparision?

    are you more worried about what she thinks, or that she'll go blabbing all over school about it? if its the latter, i would hold off. you should trust the person with whom you are sleeping.
     
  16. islanderman7

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    dont worry about the size. A womans vagina has like a zillion nerves on the inside of the walls. So as long as you can stuff 3in in, youre good.
     
  17. KungFool7

    KungFool7 keep driving—it's getting earlier

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    so, when are you planning on losing your virginity?
     
  18. Two toys

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    even though i agree with you... get an av noob.
     
  19. KungFool7

    KungFool7 keep driving—it's getting earlier

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    No. If you want to bitch about people without AVs, go do it in the offtopic forum like every other elitist cocksucker.
     
  20. beautiful disaster

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    that's not very nice. anyway -- if you wanna do it, then go for it. it's not size that counts :naughty: don't let her force you into it though because it won't be some life altering experience like you think it will be. you can only get better with practice. just be safe about it, whatever you decision is.
     
  21. V-Viper

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    you have a small pee pee but if you know how to use it no worrys!
     

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