i'm about to break my rule of no facebook/myspace contact with a girl

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  1. UNvisible

    UNvisible New Member

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    that I dont have her telephone number :rolleyes:

    my medium of contact to this girl is going home (she, the medium of contact, is going back to new york on tuesday).. and I'm tempted to contact the prospect via facebook :noes: but god damn i always said that was laaaaaaame.

    Tell me about your bad experiences so it will discourage this retarded ness :ugh2:
     
  2. UNvisible

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    sorry lol

    i have known this girl for several years. We recently made a connection through mutual friends. our mutual friend is leaving for home on tuesday. I missed my oportunity to establish a line of communication with this girl tonight. I am not forced to possibly ask for her number over facebook, which infuriates me.
     
  3. UNvisible

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    so pretty much:

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  4. S0LE_fRESH

    S0LE_fRESH New Member

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    whats the big deal
     
  5. Amanda Ann

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    :rofl: :rofl: @ that comic
     
  6. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    Why not ask your mutual friend for her number?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: :werd: Them going to NY doesn't mean you can't ever talk to them again...
     
  8. Viper

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    Not sure which would be creepier.

    Calling her up and being like "my mutual friend gave me your number" or just straight up asking for her number by stalking her facebook profile. :o
     
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    Although, I have to admit, I got my ex-wife's number from a mutual friend. But that mutual friend actually TOLD me that she (my ex) wanted me to have her number if I wanted it.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Either way shouldn't matter if she's interested. My bf for some reason never asked our mutual friend for my number and used facebook to get my AIM to get my number that way. It's funny when I think about it now because he never uses facebook or AIM, so in a way it's cute...but that's over 2 years later that it's cute :noes:

    Back then I didn't care though because I thought he was hot.
     
  11. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    nice throw in at the end.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well it's the truth. He could have written me a fucking note and left it on my car and I still would've called him :dunno:
     
  13. UNvisible

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    yeah, thats what i'm stuck on :noes:
     
  14. vodkacollins

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    are you friends with her on either myspace or facebook, or would you be randomly messaging her?

    if you are friends with her, just ask her for her number directly. if not, just ask your mutual friend. like others said, them leaving to NY doesnt mean you wont ever speak to them again, and its only Monday, so they are not gone yet
     
  15. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    Lucky Guy then.
     
  16. UNvisible

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    oh no i know i will speak to our mutual friend again. She'll be back for christmas in 3 weeks.... but i dont wnat to wait that long to contact this girl again, because that will certainly = friendzone. :mamoru:
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Then pick up your fucking phone, call your friend right now and ask for the girls number. What is so hard about this? Don't wait 3 weeks.
     
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    yeah i'm not seeing what the problem is....
     
  19. UNvisible

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    this is the problem you nogmanoids!





     
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    and we both answered the question about being creepy. problem solved
     
  21. UNvisible

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    alright i'll do it this evening
     
  22. GammaRadiation

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    That isnt creepy if you're interested in getting involved if you dont make it creepy. Call her, tell her how you got the number and why you asked for it. Dont be like "Hey, I got this number from jane doe....what's up?" Say "Hey I got this number from jane doe, she's leaving and since I dont know you any other way I asked her for your number. I was wondering if you wanted to hang out some time."

    Facebook is also perfectly acceptable. But dont wall comment bull shit. Friend her, send her a PM and ask for her number.
     
  23. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    you know the girl, it's not creepy to ask her for her phone number.
     
  24. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    If you've known her for years then why is this even an issue? Just add her and start chatting with her :dunno: I think it's much better to talk to her yourself than to get her # from a friend.
     
  25. UNvisible

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    i havent known her for years in a friendship sense. More like known "of her" for years. We're already face book friends :coolugh:, have been for a while. I dont think msging her oh facebook is direct enough?? :hsd:
     

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