I'm a Minute-Man... Help

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  1. IslandLLc

    IslandLLc New Member

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    Point blank, I usually cum in a girl that has an average tight pussy within 2 minutes. Its embarrassing and it has cost me girlfriends in the past. At the same time after dating a girl for 2 years with an average sized vagina I am back on the market. I never had problems cumming to fast with her. But I am nervous that the next time I meet someone and fuck, I will blow my load again too fast.

    In the past I have tried desensitizing condoms. Problem is, they numb my cock and I can't feel anything and sometimes become limp. Or I can't cum at all then.

    Anyone have tips how they overcame this problem?
     
  2. Yail Bloor

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    VibraNation www.VibraNation.com

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    Try masturbating a few hours before sex.
     
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    try thicker condoms. i can go hours when using inspiral
     
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    Inspiral? I haven't used a condom in like 2 years.. Had a gf on the pill :)
     
  6. ustfdes

    ustfdes LPC ID: 20394

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    i was never a minute man, but there were a few cases where i was really nervous about blowing too fast....and actually did blow in under a minute....only happened with 2 girls, and i do believe it was because of my worry/anxiety.

    just say fuck it, if you blow too fast, hell, at least you got yours! learn to recover faster! :rofl:
     
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    AnD Im SpEnT New Member

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    that actually works
     
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    I've actually found that it doesn't make any difference for me.
     
  10. Yail Bloor

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    horrible idea imo
     
  11. ustfdes

    ustfdes LPC ID: 20394

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    a side effect of DXM, or Dextromethorphan, (in robotussin and other cough supressors) is "May experience difficulty acheiving orgasm"

    it's true, lol. ;x
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    who wants difficulty achieving orgasm?

    how about the ability to go as long as you want OR come quickly if you want?
     
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    VibraNation www.VibraNation.com

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    There is a certain window of about 3-5 hours which is optimum. any further before that or within 3 hours is a horrible idea.
     
  14. Viper

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    Any further than about 20 minutes is a horrible idea. :rofl:
     
  15. Viper

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    Oops, you were talking about masturbating and not about the length of sex.
     
  16. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    jerk off more

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  17. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    btw im turning into a minute man..... ive still not wanked it!
     
  18. Ammonation

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    3-5 hours eh? What if you on a fucking date... Hit up the bathroom stall?! Ha ha... I've had this problem too so I shouldn't laugh too much
     
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    Do a search.
     
  20. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    part of your pre-date routine then
     
  21. Sexican

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    I've come across this problem. I've never been consistent...sometimes I'll last 30-45 minutes and other times I'll last 30 seconds.

    Listen to these, these will help you - trust me.

    Foreplay: Don't just start having sex right away, because it will be over too soon. If you pleasure her by going down on her, or even using your hands for 10-15 minutes - it will make her that much happier and this means you are pleasuring her without fear of blowing YOUR load.

    When you do have sex, go slow to start with and if you feel yourself about to blow - change positions. This ALWAYS works for me. All you need is 30 seconds to a minute of recooperate time and you can save yourself for another 5 minutes. :p
     
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    have lots of sex
     
  23. Justin636

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    I've never been a minuteman either, but sometimes I wish I could be, even if its just once.

    It would be convenient in some situations.

    It normally takes me about 30 minutes to get off :wtc:
     
  24. J-Ace24

    J-Ace24 double down.

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    with a new person you'll most likely blow early. get her hot first almost to the point of her getting off then have sex. but really a lot of it is mental. think of something other than how good it feels.
     
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    Ive found that having LOTS and LOTS of sex will cure it. If you dont have that luxury, then to hell with it. Learn to just keep going. When I was having that problem with my ex when we first started dating, I would blow in like a minute but she NEVER knew it. I would just keep going until i blew again, then I would pretend like that was the first time. This might not work for everybody, but it worked for me.
     

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