I'm a Guy and I'm Afraid of Sex??

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  1. who?

    who? Guest

    A few times i have turned down sex, or situations which couldve possibly lead to sex..
    an example is that i was bugging a girl to goto her place after dinner and we could watch a movie in her room. She initially gave excuses like "i dont have any movies" or "lets go somewhere else", but as i was close to her place, she invited me to go watcha movie with her, she would find something...
    at that point i told her "nah maybe next time..."

    :ugh: :hsugh: :ugh: :hs: i know...

    many more similar situations, what's up with me? i just dont take advantage of situations like these enough
     
  2. who?

    who? Guest

    it seems like whenever i've got the girl, i feel like i want her to want me more, and blow her off...
     
  3. RRated

    RRated New Member

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    You sure you are into Girls?
     
  4. who?

    who? Guest

    i for sure am, refer to my 2nd post..
     
  5. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Sounds like you're treating it as a game. When the girl gives in that probably makes you feel like you've "won" and then you become disinterested.
     
  6. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    How old are you?
     
  7. who?

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    21
    why?
     
  8. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Curiosity. :)

    Are you a virgin? Are you afraid of sex or are you afraid of the consequences of sex (STIs and pregnancy?)?
     
  9. Archer Sterling

    Archer Sterling Vroom Vroom Moderator

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    Geez, just go eat pussy. This girl wanted you bad!! :(.
     
  10. toolfan

    toolfan OT Supporter

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    Are you insecure with your body or your sexual prowess? I dont think I could do one night stands because of it. I have to be in a relationship where I trust the person for me to relax.
     
  11. èpic

    èpic aka modernlife

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    maybe your just shy, if vergine maybe you dont know wat to do or anything so you run like a little girl???
     
  12. Riot

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    sounds like a bug chaser
     
  13. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    i've freaked out when girls have been openly keen as well. it happens, especially if you're inexperienced.

    relax, your time will come :)
     
  14. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    My guess is insecurity, but you really didnt provide enough info...
     
  15. Zaffir

    Zaffir OT Supporter

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    Contrary to popular belief, not everyone is ready to rock the instant they turn 13.

    You'll get past this in one of two ways: the hard way, or the easy way. The hard way goes like this: You'll end up losing your virginity before you're 100% ready. It'll be awkward, you'll be really nervous, and you'll feel like a dork once it's over. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and you'll be better off in the long run.

    The easy way is you wait until you're 100% comfortable with the girl and it happens seemingly on its own- usually the guy has to lead, so y ou'll push go there without really thinking about it.
     
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  16. ptwiggens

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    Both of those require using the hard way. :bigthumb:
     

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