I'm 22 turning 23 in july, graduated from college...

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  1. outlaws

    outlaws C.R.E.A.M.

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    and still a virgin....... :wtc:
    is there still any hope for me? :sadwavey:
     
  2. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    No, no hope at all.













    Well there's always hope, but why do you think you haven't slept with anyone yet? Always too nervous? Never meet anyone? Figure out the reason and attempt to fix it?
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    le sigh....

    Hun, it's not the end of the world, trust me. Society puts far to much pressure on it.

    However, I still have to ask why? Have you never had a girlfriend? If so, how many? Do you ever go out to meet women speciically? Do you even talk to women casually around you and not just in a "hunting" mode?

    Please answer all questions :)

    Edit: Here's an older thread from the virgins from the forum
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2417204&highlight=virgin&page=2
    Plus, you can search "virgin" and fine a ton of threads from other virgins past 18, so seriously don't beat yoursef up, just get out there!
     
  4. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    The girl on the left is still a virgin and its not a big deal to her...

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  5. CHOWBOX

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    don't sweat it. i wouldn't strive for it, just let it happen, it will
     
  6. DubOverdose

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    I just graduated and know PLENTY of virgins, both guys and girls. Wait til you find someone you like that LIKES YOU TOO.
     
  7. vodkacollins

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    i dont think its a big deal at all

    my friend married a virgin 2 years ago. he was 24. no biggy. there is always hope
     
  8. RebootEnzo

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    I know you guys say it is not a big deal but on the other hand I have people talk on here about how girls think something must be wrong with a guy if he is still a virgin at a certain age.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well I'm always curious of their story, hence why earlier I asked him what his deal was (whch was never answered). But if you meet a guy and like him enough most girls could give a shit less if he's a virgin in fact a lot of women think it's sweet because they can teach him and it boosts their sexual ego.
     
  10. Tiberium

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    yes there is a lot of hope. When I graduated college I was still a virgin, and looking back, I have come to realize that college was probably the most miserable time of my life. Life only gets better as you age....especially if you're a guy :h5:
     
  11. ballerman230

    ballerman230 just a pale blue dot

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    19 year old virgin here, first class, meaning, besides a couple awkward drunk encounters I've never even made out with a girl. :ugh: I need to change this fast.
     
  12. outlaws

    outlaws C.R.E.A.M.

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    :bowdown:
    except my parents wants to live with me :hsd:........ asian famirlys rool :hs:
     
  13. Skeletor

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    To me it seems people do it when they're ready. I've always been nervous around girls and still am, but I was a horny ass 16 year old and I was ready for it, so I pursued it then. Some people don't get that motivation until they're 20, 25, etc. Life is what you make it, and you should make it what you want, not what other people say it should be.
     
  14. crunchy_black

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    My friend went to thailand and got a hooker at age 24, whatever you want bra
     
  15. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    Don't sweat it. Just let it come to you whenever.
    You don't have to rush it and might even end up with herpes or aids.
     
  16. Dweezil

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    Buy a hooker as a graduation present to yourself.
     
  17. DTR rex

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    I assume this isn't by choice?

    Don't stress yourself out about it... it's really not that big of a deal. I still have friends who are in their 20's and are virgins. Just go throughout life and your time will come. You probably don't date very much, and socialize a lot, which is a huge part of the problem... but I wouldn't think of it so much as a "problem".
    Personally, I think people sleep around way too much as it is and have too many partners. Just start putting yourself in situations to meet new people and potentially date. At your age (which is also my age) most women will put out by the 3rd date.
     
  18. DTR rex

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    Yeah, I lost mine really young (15) to a girl I had only known a couple of months and I was regretful at first. Luckily, as it turns out, that girl and I fell in love and dated for many years and she is now still the most important person in my life (even as an ex) so it all worked out well I guess.
     
  19. jonno

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    i lost it at 20 and my good friend lost it at 21. who cares.
     
  20. jonno

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    :eek3: you guys back together?
     
  21. antihero

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    you guys that keep on saying "don't sweat it, it will come to you" are nuts.

    It does NOT come to you. you get off your ass and you go out and get it.
     
  22. DrKillByDeath

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    Calm down brotato. Turning 21 in October, never been on a date or even kissed.
     
  23. jonno

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    now... i'd be worried about being 21 and never kissing a girl. wtf man?
     
  24. DTR rex

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    Nope. Short of a phone conversation of her calling drunk to tell me how much she missed me and wanted me back I have no talked to her in nearly 3 months.

    We were on and off for a while. But that doesn't change the fact that if she ever needed me I would be there for her, and to this day she is still the most important person in my life (even though she's not entirely in it anymore).
     
  25. Rellik

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    :werd: you only live once and if you're wasting your 20s its fucking tragic!! soon you will be old and on your deathbed and you will regret that you weren't with more people. i wish there could be a reset button so i could start again and put myself on the right path
     

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