If your girlfriend went to hang out with her friend...

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  1. The Sirc

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    I mean, if your girlfriend went out with a guy friend to dinner and a movie. Would you be pissed? Would you have rights to feel jealous and uncomfortable with that? I was arguing this with my buddy last night and I'm wanting more input on this.
     
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    if they are just friends and have been for a long time... it shouldn't be a problem.
     
  3. Bubba Atlantis

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    If you went and hung out with a female friend...should your girlfriend be pissed, jealous or worried?

    If the answer is no, neither should you ;)

    EDIT: didn't read all your post. The RIGHT, yes...should you?? see above ;)
     
  4. The Sirc

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    I don't think I would mind. My friend was having a pissing fit about it.
     
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    If I were a guy I would mind, All my guy friends ended up wanting to be more than friends. That seems to happen alot
     
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    not at all. i wouldn't get mad at him, and he shouldn't get mad at me. i trust him completely :)
     
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    I'd have no problem with it.
     
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    why does it have to be her and him ALONE?

    I would not be comfortable with this situation. I think you should see if she/they would like to do a group thing.
     
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    Why wouldn't you trust them?
     
  12. snoozeallday

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    i dont care if nothing was going on or not..

    i'd be pissed



    but im an overprotective jealous asshole..
     
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    My GF doesn't need to be alone with any guy. I dont care how good of friends they are.
     
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    See, I like this..the ONLY person that admits to it....if you have a good relationship and you are not an overprotective jealous asshole...than there is nothing to be worried about. What if she liked women a bit...will she than not be 'allowed' to hang out with anyone alone?? please...
     
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    What is it she likes about him that would get her to not include you too? Have they ever dated? Are they just going for a drink or dancing and eating? If she is calling him or he is calling her too much I think I'd have to wonder why she is so interested in this guy. If it "sounds" like a date by your answers to my questions, then it probably is.
     
  16. krott5333

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    dinner and a movie is like the basic standard of a date.

    i could see dinner.. at a casual place.. or a movie.. but not both
     
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    let me guess though, its fine for you to be alone with a girl?
     
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    i made thet mistake of letting the girl i was seeing hang out with her ex, and now they got back together.

    dont do the same mistake. ;)
     
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    i wouldnt be pissed. i wouldnt mind either if my gf was getting railed by another dude though :ugh2:
     
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    if the guy was also going out then I'd be more likely to trust them
     
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    issue is w/e level of trust u have in her... obviously if u have no doubts u don't care
     
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    Not at all. I have no reason to be alone with any of my female friends.
     
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    whoever invests less into a relationship has less to lose
     
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  25. snoozeallday

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    yeah it'd be fine..

    i mean.. if she was hanging out with a guy that I AM friends with.. one that i trust.. then i have no problem

    but i really cant help the fact that my blood boils when she is with a guy i dont know.. (and trust me i've tried many times)

    i guess its because i know how fuckin guys are!!!
     

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