If you think you're a "nice guy" and/or just can't get a date

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  1. Pounce

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    This is a rant I've seen go around a few times. It's from someone (divalion) on livejournal but I think it's pretty damn sound advice, and considering a lot of people here have echoed lately that they don't know what they're doing wrong that they can't get a date, maybe this will help. Or maybe your problem is something else entirely. Who knows, but if you find yourself empathizing with schmitty101... :sadwavey:

    It's pretty long, but if you're having trouble you should read it all.

    Feel free to criticize/comment/whatever - remember I didn't write this, I just happen to agree with most of it - but you should read the whole thing first.

     
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  2. Kev07

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    in for the psycho girlfriends blog :rofl:
     
  3. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    in the words of BD, wall of text crits you for 900000 :eek3:
     
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    So. Much. Text. I'm sure you mean well so I'll come back to this :wavey:
     
  5. Girder_Shade

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    wall of text that needs way more paragraphs. :o

    I agree with some points but it really does sound like the girl who wrote this is in love with herself.
     
  6. JOJ

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    im a nice guy and i can get a date :bowdown:
     
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    allthatshitbyyou.txt
     
  8. forgotmyname

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    What? :ugh:
     
  9. Pounce

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    Ohh come on I already said it was going to be long :[ It's really only for people who need it anyway (and they should have plenty of time to read if they can't get a girl :mamoru:)

    If it'll make you all feel better I'll even go in and put some bold into the parts that I think are the most important. Because I care. :hug:
     
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    Just add more spaces, that shit was hard to read and yes I did read it all.
     
  11. Chadder007

    Chadder007 OG Diamond Member

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    Thats because you are a nice guy and not a Nice Guy. :mamoru:
     
  12. ChaCha

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    what about Nice guys?
     
  13. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Verbal diarrhea much? I mean damn. :mamoru:
     
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    Read it all and she's pretty much right in all of it.
     
  15. schmitty101

    schmitty101 You might remember me from such films as "Dig your

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    Wow! Thank you I learned A LOT!

    Seriously, this is the proper way to educate people. Simply giving a few words of advice here and there really does nothing (aka "your probably coming off as desperate without realizing it"). An article like this, on the hand, gives great examples and explains the differences between right and wrong.

    Now I see that even though I partially am a nice guy, I'm also partially a Nice Guy and I probably give off those vibes. I now have an idea of what I need to work on.

    Whoever wrote this, please read some of my other threads and write articles that could help me with my other issues as well.



    Oh and STICKY this!!
     
  16. Pounce

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    :bigthumb: :bigthumb: :bigthumb:

    I'm really glad you got some use out of it. Really, I am. I hope it helps you out. Good luck. :)
     
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    that was a good ass read.
     
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  19. JOJ

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    im actually a huge asshole when im drunk :bowdown:

    was taking the drunk bus home last night and screaming into peoples faces about how the highschools they went to/their counties sucked dick.
    :bowdown:

    was a good time
     
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    :hsugh:
     
  21. Jimeigh

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    pretty good analysis
     
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    chivalry is dead, 'nice' guys usually are the ones who think they shouldnt fight back if his SO is cussing him out over nothing...or something similar. i would guess that if you were willing to atleast attempt to be the stronger one in the relationship...wether you succeed in the end or not, the woman wouldnt just shrug you off as one of those 'nice' guys
     
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    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    I liked this a lot. despite being QUITE a wall of text, I got through all of it with little issue.
     
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    With the exception that she seems to be wrong in quite a few assumptions.

    Like the fact that she is blasting nice guys for having no personality but goes in and says when a women feels uncomfortable about something, is because she doesn't like it, so stop doing it. That throws your whole strong personality out of the window and turns yourself into a do-whatever-she-likes.

    Let's not forget that she doesn't seem to be flaming the nice guys only but guys in general.

    What about that little bit of bullshit about expecting instant gratification. That is not secluded to the male genre but to both sexes.

    She makes a few good points but it is hard to find them among all the flawed bullshit that she wrote.
     

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