This is a rant I've seen go around a few times. It's from someone (divalion) on livejournal but I think it's pretty damn sound advice, and considering a lot of people here have echoed lately that they don't know what they're doing wrong that they can't get a date, maybe this will help. Or maybe your problem is something else entirely. Who knows, but if you find yourself empathizing with schmitty101... It's pretty long, but if you're having trouble you should read it all. Feel free to criticize/comment/whatever - remember I didn't write this, I just happen to agree with most of it - but you should read the whole thing first.