I just broke up with this girl i was seeing for 4 years. I made a thread about a week ago. She had dinner with a guy friend at Cheesecake Factory, like 3 weeks ago when we were together. I didnt think anything of it, thought it was jsut a friend, but when she came over to my house after dinner, i noticed something weird. She was dressed up, something she never really does when we go out to eat and she had a drink, something she has NEVER done with me. She mentioned he wanted her to go party with him down south that night. Usually girls dress to impress, so i was kinda like Whatever, relationship is over, not because of that, but i think she might have been hanging out alot with him recently during out 2 week breakup. Im done with her now though (not sure if she can sesnse it), but i was just wondering...would you rather know or not know if you S.O. was cheating?