LGBT if you had THE choice

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  1. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    to go straight, would you?
     
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  3. I would have to say no. It would be easier to be straight but I dunno...loving girls would be "weird". Although it's "normal" I dunno I don't think I'd like it...I guess that is what straight is being though...I would like them. I wouldn't do it though. I see nothing wrong with being gay so I don't think I need a pill to fix it.
     
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    hellllllll noooo.!! i love being gay..!
     
  5. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    ouch.! :eek3:
     
  7. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    I would lose most of my friends that our girls

    they tell me it would be ok if i were straight and they wouldnt change their opinion, but I think they would fall into 2 categories
    those that want to date me, and those that put up a wall because they are scared I will want to date them

    Also I am very happy in my current relationship and wouldnt want to lose that
    its hard to find someone you are compatible with regardless of orientation, and I really would not want to start fresh and toss a 2 year relationship out the window

    and I love gay clubs and being able to check out all the hotties and not feel like im being a perv since they are all doing it too

    i guess to answer the question
    no I would not

    I have too much to lose
     
  8. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    are you not happy with being gay?
    (not being judgmental, just wondering)
     
  9. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    i don't think i'd care either way.

    after being closeted for so long and coming out recently i still feel a little "rose tinted" about the whole thing. but deep down i really do think i prefer the gay lifestyle. either way i would still have the ability to find love and have meaningful relationships with people..and that is what is really important to me.

    the only thing i'm iffy about is that i DO want children someday and that's going to be difficult to arrange
     
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    elevator The tenants think it's wonderful! ヽ(´ OT Supporter

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    too long.

    instantly.
     
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    on second thought. i prolly wouldnt.....everything ive done in the past four'ish years would have been done in vain. not that ive done much. but you get the idea :)
     
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    I dunno.
     
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    Macbeth That's illogical... OT Supporter

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  15. novo

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    so much for pride huh? [​IMG]
     
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    It wouldn't even take me that long...
     
  18. geniks

    geniks king of the hill

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    If i had that option way before going through the shit i did in public schools. I think it's made me wiser and has opened me up to things. yes and no
     
  19. you guys are traitors. i <3 that i <3 boys, even though it can be hard at times because of other people hating on me but it's worth it in the end. i met someone who i truly care about and that means a lot to me and it doesn't matter if they are a guy or a girl.
     
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    In a heartbeat
     
  21. LA02MAX

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    without a doubt. I wouldn't have nearly as many problems if that were the case..
     
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    to me, it's not just about what other people think. It's trying to FIND a guy.
     
  23. Naturally Baked

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    Yes...if I could be born straight, to switch now? No because I know what its like having a guy and to me right now I like it, it feels good. But If I could erase all gay thoughts ive ever had and be born straight then yes 100%


    hate to say it but I am NOT proud to be gay :\
     
  24. You guys make me sad :(

    I had some heart aches over being gay, coming out and all of that, but I'm not embarrassed to be gay. I am me and people can take it or leave it.
     
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    again to me, this isn't about what others think. It's about what I want. And I have never liked the fact that I'm gay.
     

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