If you found out your girlfreind/boyfreind...

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  1. BrewCrew

    BrewCrew Active Member

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    ... texting someone nonstop and having midnight conversations lasting a hour to 2 hours with anther guy/girl. Would you be pissed?
     
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    cliffs. girl used to date last year around this time has been contacting me alot lately. I know she has a bf, but she never talks about him at all, and always tries to hide him from me. I do know she isnt happy with him tho.
     
  3. Abomb

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    no id be fucking thrilled that my gf was talking to dudes on the phone for hours. in fact, id buy her a better plan to allow for more dudes.
     
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    why do you even want to waste your time? you are getting nothing out of this other than a conversation and blue balls. hes the one getting laid. she gets laid and gets a good conversation.
     
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    yes i know this, but im not devoting all my time to the girl at all.
     
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    just 1-2 hours a night on the phone when you could be sleeping instead earning yourself blue balls yah thats great man :ugh2:
     
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    or 1-2 hours that you could be conversing with a girl who will actually sleep with you...
     
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    i wouldn't be red in the face mad over it, but i wouldn't be happy about it either. it's not so much the texting and convo that would bother me, but the underlying issues that led her to do that.

    most likely, the outcome would be the end of the relationship.
     
  9. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    What does she talk to you about? Is she flirtatious?
     
  10. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    :rofl: The irony.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I before E, except after C.

    And yes, I'd be upset and skeptical of his reasoning.
     
  12. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    this sounds like the latest episode of Two and a Half Men........cept that they were brothers in that episode.
     
  13. Abomb

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    what? that I smashed my gfs phone into the wall?

    im glad you are able to pick up on sarcasm so freely :hsugh:

    :clap:
     
  14. Abomb

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    :rofl:
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :hsugh: I'd be pissed if someone did that to my phone even if I had text-sex with someone,lol. wait, does that even exist?

    seriously tho, that is a very angry response...would really scare me:noes:
     
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    *shrug* i was paying for the phone anyways
     
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    Dargone Noob

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    Clutch.
     
  18. chlywly

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    Absolutely... It means something is up, even if its someone of the same sex, any time there is a drastic behavioral change something is up. My ex met a girl at work and they became best friends, texting and calling ALL the time, to the point that her and I later pretty much stopped talking and things just fell apart... It almost seemed like she drifted away from me and to her...

    Oh well.
     
  19. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    not necessarily. It all comes down to the specific situation. Sometimes when I am bored and he wants to do his thing or just when we are bored of each other because of being with each other the whole day, I go and talk on messenger or phone with my friends (guys or girls) maybe even for hours... you know something is up when they pay much less attention to you and spend the time talking or being with some one else..
     
  20. Falconer

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    yes something shady is going on.
     
  21. teep

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    i used to talk to this girl regularly all night. sometimes we would talk till 5am without even realizing it. she had a boyfriend. i felt bad :hs:

    nothing reaaally came of it, but it was the furthest thing from innocent.
     
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    Well that's essentially what I'm saying. In my case, I was getting MUCH less attention where her friend seemed to be getting exponentially more. That means a large change in behavior, especially behavior towards you.
     
  23. BrewCrew

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    everything but him lol, and yes very.
     
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    she will be with him and texting me on weekends, like all night, sometimes til 3-4 in the morning. She calls me when something bad goes wrong way before she will call him. Messed up, I like the girl alot prolly why I let her use me like this, but the dude did the same shit to me last year so i dont feel bad for him. She told me a couple times, once when she was sober and the other when we were at a party, that she would rather be with me and she doesnt know why shes with him and all this jazz. Those are the only 2 times Ive heard anything about him.
     
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    I don't see the draw in this at all. All she is doing is using you, which you've told us you see. She's preventing you from moving on, using you to get what she can't out of her current relationship, and facing no consequences. Even if she ditches the bf she won't talk about and you get together, she's gonna do the exact same thing to you.

    So really? Keep this girl in your life if you want, but don't pretend you don't know it's going to end horribly, she's not a good person or gf, and that the whole scenario is fail and aids.

    /2 cents
     

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