My gf of 11 months and I went camping for the long weekend.... We're settin the tent up Thursday afternoon after the 4-hour ride to the campsite. She's helping set the tent up, but she's bending one of the flex-poles and I hear it cracking. Here's exactly what I said. "Hold it hold it there _________, you're breaking the pole!" Where you see ________, insert my Ex-fiancee's (of 2+ years) name. This ex is hated by everyone. Including the now gf. She got upset. I did too, not thinking, just blurted it out. I apologized, and told her that I meant nothing by it, it just came out of nowhere. I have no feelings whatsoever for the ex and it shocked me that I said it. Today, she's still upset, and said I ruined our weekend vacation. Is she over reacting? I've been apologizing since I said it.