If approaching at work is only option?

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  1. Boudreaux

    Boudreaux Active Member

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    I have reason to believe that a server at a local bar i sometimes attend is interested in me (and even if not what do i have to lose amirite). I'm not big on "hitting on" girls while at work, especially ones that work in the bar type atmosphere. But, this place is 30 minutes away and while i would normally dismiss it and attempt contact somewhere, somehow, outside of work the likly hood of that happening is extremely minimal.

    So, if making an approach while she is at work is the only ligitimate option, how would you proceed?
     
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    I'm not sure how I would proceed, but just keep this in mind:
    Servers work for tips..her interest may be for other reasons..
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    what happened to the bartender?
     
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    She has never served me personally :dunno:

    but this has crossed my mind, but i'm not too worried about it.
     
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    the one from a while back?

    She ended up getting a hold of me. we still hang out every once in a while, once a week or so, but i'm not interested in her romantically.

    She's hot though :drool:

    How do you manage to keep up with these things. Good jerb
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm sadly too involved here :mamoru: I remember everything.

    But I'm just curious, what is so great about this chick? When you used to talk about the bartender she seemed great too and now you say you just don't feel anything for her? So what is it about this waitess that is different?

    I mean I still say it's worth a shot, I think any girl you are interested in is worth a shot (well, depends on the situation...).
     
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    Well, the other waitress, from a while back, just isn't my thing. I'm attracted to her, but after a couple of dates and hanging out, at this juncture she just isn't for me. I was initially very impressed, but as i got to know her, things changed. I think she is a cool chick, and we still hang out, just not romantically.

    This one may not be different, but i am attracted to her and would like to see her outside of work if possible to find out.
     
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    how can you think she is interested in you if you have never interacted with her in person?
     
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    maybe she's been eyeing him
     
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    It's been obvious we have a report with one another.

    And what does it matter, i'm attracted to her so either way i'd like to make contact.
     
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    along these lines, she has made physical contact beyond what i would say was necessary for her duties as an employee.

    And i wasn't drunk (on the motorcycle) so it's not the booze talking.
     
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    this thread kind of got off track :hsugh:
     
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    ah, it wasn't clear if you had associated with her outside of her work.
     
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    :squint:
     
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    don't fail me now vag!
     
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    what specifically did she do? pat on the shoulder/back?
     
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    this isn't what i want focused on :hsd:

    but more or less, yes. It was 100% unecessary and really drawn out, not patting, but constant placement, small movement.
     
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    and yet you drive 30 min to sit at a bar when im sure there are plenty of others closer....


    it worked :o
     
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    i go to spend some time with my old man

    what worked :confused:
     
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    fail thread :sad2:
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I don't really know what you were expecting. Whether people are posting or not I can't think of anyone who would say "don't do it. don't try and ask her out!"
     
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    next time, get her number at the first sign of interest

    i met my wife at her work and that's what i did
     
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    my policy (and i thought good general practice) is not to hit on or get numbers from chicks while at work, so, I have zero experience in this area.

    and apparently not everyone shares my restraint when they're working? :hsugh:
     

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