If a girl doesn't get wet on your first time together you...

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  1. Meblue

    Meblue New Member

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    This account is an AE btw, simply because i know plenty of people on my main in real life and i figure id prefer to keep some of this shit anonymous.

    Anyway, so ive been dating a girl for 3 weeks, goes really well, we seem very comfortable together actually, im very keen on her, anyway, we hadn't actually had sex yet, tonight i had it planned so my room mate wasnt home, and after spending most of the day with her we proceed as usual.

    However after making out for like 10 minutes she doesnt go wet at all, i bring this too her attention and we try for like another 5... still... nothing. This isn't new for me and she clearly wanted to do this, but ive never had something like this happen before :hs: After we continue to do this there is a mad awkward silence, she assures me its not me its not me and i wasnt really sure what to do there, i wasnt annoyed or anything, it wasnt like that. I was just embarrassed for myself and for her. I made light of the situation, but i knew for whatever reason this fucked something up big time.

    Now im really not sure how to handle the situation, its 2am right now and i just got home, she works all day tomorrow. Im really not sure what to say. :hs:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Lube and a condom?

    Dont see whats so upsetting about it, im sure during the actual sex she'd get wet, no? No clit stimulation to help her get wet? Just making out?

    I wouldnt sweat it.
     
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    Could be a million things bro, maybe she was nervous, maybe she wasn't that into it, maybe she was tired, maybe she's normally dryer.. Could be anything.. I wouldn't think much of it, unless it happens all the time.
     
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    you kissed for 10 whoooole minutes and she wasn't wet so you said "wow.. you are really dry!" :ugh:

    I'm sure it probably wasn't that bad but geeeze.

    Had you guys been drinking?
     
  6. Falconer

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    Maybe she's on a bc or other medication that is messing with her ability to produce lube.

    For one of my GFs, the first pill she went on completely prevented her from getting wet. It sucked. We had to use lube. Like she would be turned on as fuck and bone dry :hs:

    She changed to another pill and the problem went away :bowdown:
     
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    you brought this to her attention?? wtf, you probably made her feel super self conscious now and she's gonna be so worried about not being wet that its gonna be hard for her to get wet or enjoy sex with you, good job
     
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    Why would you bring it to her attention?

    Just use lube.
     
  9. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Have you brought to attention that you still check your ex g/f's facebook? :o :mamoru:

    Communication is a good thing, not a bad thing.
     
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    . sounds like you gave up waaaay to soon. it's called foreplay brah.
     
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    this has only happened to me once. normally a girl i am sexing will be wet after i make out w. her, touch her, etc...

    i was dating a girl that i wasnt THAT into. we finally go to have sex and she's dry. i could tell she was embarrased so i made light of it.
    however, in the end it was a big deal coupled w. me not being that into her. i waited a few days and broke up w. her.

    two weeks later i see her at a club we frequent. she sees me w. a new girl. comes up to me and tells me she knows why i broke up w. her "bc she didnt get wet". then said new girl comes up to me. ex gets really pissed and throws her drink at me. : /
     
  12. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :hsugh: This problem has a very easy solution. Give her an orgasm by oral first. As far as I know, every girl gets wet after orgasm.
     
  13. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: seriously.

    You might try doing more than slipping her the tongue for 10 minutes. Foreplay is usually a bit more involved :rofl:
     
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    I say set up the same thing. Get some lube and keep it in case. Now it does take more than 10 minutes. Pull her panties off and get some pussy and see what happens.
     
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    There's always your tongue. ;)
     
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  17. Falconer

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    That's what I thought, too. But then I figured maybe it went down like this:

    Her: "put it in."

    Him: "I can't."

    Her: "why?"

    Him: "Ur dry."
     
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    This, but sometimes we just want to get right down to business and skip all the foreplay, I'm not wet because I haven't had time to warm up really, but I usually just lick my fingers and rub myself for a sec. :dunno: Once he get's inside it's fine, it's just the outside that's dry.

    That's pretty fail on your part though that you couldn't think of another way to get around it and then just didn't have sex.
     
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    Don't over-think this.
     
  20. Holliday

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    please don't tell me all you did to try and get her wet was make out with her.
     
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  21. Falconer

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    Some chicks do get wet just from making out.

    Especially if it's one of your first times together.
     
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    Girl im seeing now :drool:

    First 'real' make out session, in my apartment, not out in the car or at the bar or something, we were making out and she was wearing leggins/spandex women shit they wear and I had my hands on her hips/ass/thighs kinda. I slide my hand inbetween her thighs and rub her between her legs and she is DRIPPING wet through the fucking leggins.

    Instant hard on.
     
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  25. iwishyouwerebeer

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    1. I know who this is, and I'm disappointed in you not just asking me to make it anonymous :nono:

    2. Never bring up to the girl that she's not getting wet. She knows she's not getting wet, brigning it up only brings more anxiety.

    3. Try more than 15 minutes of foreplay. Kiss, finger, oral, etc.

    4. If after extended foreplay she's still dry it could easily have everything to do with what BC she uses, and/or if she's on any antibiotics.

    5. Buy some lube. Lube is not an enemy.
     

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