I don't have any motivation to do anything. We just got a new kitty (she's about 6 months old) and the poor thing doesn't use her litter box (although the previous owner has said that she was litter trained). this results in the bf and I coming home to whatever mess anywhere in the house, its becoming disappointing to know that whatever we do (change the litter, the litter box, the spot, getting numerous litter boxes...) she doesn't want anything to do with it. Its to the point where we have to listen to scratching on the floor to run after her and make her use the litter box. I'm also starting to associate home with all the stress, when I'm at work I'm a completely different person, I'm happy and I genuinely feel that way. however when I come home, I have to clean up whatever the mess that was left from the kitty, and then all the stress from school drops down and then I realize I have to work which results in lack of time to do anything. I feel down all the time and I feel overwhelmed with stress when I'm at home. any ideas on how to pull my morale back up OT? at this point, giving the kitty up isn't an option, we want to give this kitten a real chance to have a home.