LGBT I woudl like the OT's gay community's opinion on this...

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  1. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    I work as a bouncer in a number of clubs in Ft. Lauderdale. At a few of these clubs they have "gay night"s.

    I just want to know what the gay consensus is on this.

    I am in no way freaked out by gay men or women in any way shape of form. I'm often asked to work these night because I don't care.

    How is it my not being freaked out by gay guys mean its OK to try and kiss my neck when your talking in my ear?

    Its obvious I work at the club, I mention my g/f. What more do I need to do and why does this happen?
     
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    Diesel Freak ♂♂ Closet Crew OT Supporter

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    Interesting problem you have there. Pics? :x:
     
  3. sholnay

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    Im sorry - I usually respect the bouncers at clubs - seeing as ive lived with bouncers for over 5 years, I have an idea of what they go through every night.

    I also never really just lean up and kiss guys randomly - thats kinda... pathetic?

    sorry
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    Just ask them to not touch you. You're the bouncer, bounce their ass if you have to.

    I have to tell guys to back the fuck off every now and again myself.
     
  5. sholnay

    sholnay New Member

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    :werd:

    you're in control :) hopefully they'll get the hint...
     
  6. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    See AV
     
  7. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Unfortunately in Ft. Lauderdale the gay crowd are huge complainers. We are instructed not to be rough or rude with them. They will complain to the club then the club gives the company I work for tons of shit.

    I'm not a violent or aggressive person despite my day and night jobs being synonymous with violence. I just told him to go back to the party and to enjoy his night. i need the my job to much to risk losing it by goin off on someone.

    I don't expect to be as polite if it happens again.
     
  8. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    rub garlic on your neck?
     
  9. sholnay

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    :mamoru:

    then i might just wanna eat him :o
     
  10. compu_85

    compu_85 Woooo! 60HP!

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    Or sun screen :big grin:

    Just kinda strange to go kiss people randomly IMHO. :confused:

    -J
     
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    ya - very strange to me - but I see exactly what hes talking about at clubs. I just assume the bouncers are gay - here, they are...

    I should clarify though - that here... we have one gay night a week at one club... so i guess there isnt much demand.
     
  12. pulp priest

    pulp priest we're here! we're queer! we don't want any more be

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    period.
    it's not gays, it's guys, they're stupid.
     
  13. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    I thought we covered this...

    :yum:
     
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  15. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    There used to be only 1 club here that had gay nights. It started out a hip hop club but one of the owners was gay and he wanted a gay night, when it hit it was HUGE and thats all the club was known for so the straight nights died out. That club then got shut down for underage drinking (DEA got a girl in with a fake ID then denied it and then nailed 5 more clubs int he next 2 hours. No way that happened without a fake ID.)

    When that club shut down the gay market was open and so 8 or so clubs popped up with gay nights. My company works about 4 of those clubs.

    None of the bouncers have ever been gay on the gay nights mostly at the clubs request. They asked for pretty but straight most the time.
     
  16. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    No need to appologize I've never been one to associate the actions of 1 with the group they belong to.

    I figure I'll be quite rude if the guy ever comes to my club again.
     
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    you can also - even though unwelcome - consider it a compliment.
     
  18. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    now u know how the poor girls feel when guys get all touchy feely haaha
    but yeah, its just guys being dogs
     
  19. RougeOgre

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    Sorry Vulgar, but you are quite sexy. :dunno:
     
  20. aLwZjIttERy

    aLwZjIttERy Per vicis adveho verum...

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    What he said.
     
  21. Zombie Pornstar

    Zombie Pornstar I'm cumming RAWL

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    Well based on your av you certainly look like you enjoy a good fudge packing.
     
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    They're drunk, you're probably cute, and did I mention they're drunk? Jesus I would never randomly kiss some guy...especially a bouncer at a club, but then my moral compass is a lil bit better than that..
     
  23. XPX

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    not everyone is like that, just the really out-there ones...
     
  24. XPX

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    not the place for this
     
  25. Zombie Pornstar

    Zombie Pornstar I'm cumming RAWL

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    oops sorry got linked here didnt realize I left the main forum :rofl:
     

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