Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Killgunner, Aug 1, 2007.
Am I the only one?
Does that make me.....
gay people watcher!
Me & lildevildee but in my case, I'm a little off of totally str8t
How can you be a little not straight, either you are straight or you aren't.
many straight people troll the closet... and we're happy to have them as long as they act respectfully...
We are a welcoming forum!!
Umm... no. For the most part I like men but I have a GF also. I am mostly attracted to men but there will be that occassional woman that (ANGELIA JOLIE ). Read around this forum some more.
Nobody ever is completely straight or gay/lesbian, so there
I'm straight, but only lurk here
Anyone know who Jason Momoa is? I feel this need to share how uber hot he is
So do you consider yourself straight then?
Since I am married, everyone else considers me str8t and in the mall 90% of my "admiration" falls to the males.....
and I am with the others here who don't like to be labeled. Not everything in life is black and white (no matter what the Marine Corps told you ).
just think of it as a continuum
in fact, rather than repeating myself (and others), just read this thread:
pay attention to what busydoingnothing says. he understands the psychology of sexuality very well and is a very good source of information for this sort of question.
I see straight people.
I don't mind being "labeled" straight... it's just what I am, I didn't mean to try to offend you in any way. But, I understand your point, we'll call you... you.
None taken . That is why I visit here often. Folks here can tell when you are just trying to learn/understand something that might be entirely new to you and they are more than happy to help!
(returns to lurking)
Shhh ... if you are very quiet they might not see you and then they will just move on
the str8ts don't see each other dontchano
That's a relief.
AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH [move] [/move]
your :hyperrun: smilie seems to be malfunctioning.
I'm (mostly) straight, but I actually post rather than lurk. This subforum is the last stop in my daily routine before I hop into the void that is Off Topic.
safe travels, sir...
off topic scares me. !
Haha, yeah. For the first month or so, I would only hop in there once in a great while, click a thread, refresh, BOOM, it's on the next page already. You get used to it. I've had a million laughs from all the shit talking, Photoshopping, MS Painting, aww kittah awwing, and plenty of wanks from all the hot pic posting
hmm...i might catch some flak for saying this, but i'm very skeptical of the kinsey-esque continuum theory. i mean, sure, we're all able to use our sexual organs in a wide variety of situations, but actual physical attraction does seem to push the edges of the continuum rather than the middle to me. for instance, essentially all of my straight friends are extremely open-minded about homosexuality/bisexuality, which leads me to believe if they did in fact harbor some bisexual urges, more of them would have little problem sharing that with me. as it is, none of them have. the same is mostly true of gay people i know.
i know i can't extrapolate my personal experience to that of the entire world, but it seems to me that the "continuum" theory suffers a lot from same problem of the dying conservatist theory that no one is "really" gay - it basically calls a whole lot of people (the global majority who claim to be either fully straight or fully gay) liars, or at least claims to know more about their sexual preferences than they do.
my basic opinion about sexuality is this - whatever someone claims to be, that's what he or she is. whatever label she chooses for herself is what i'll accept her as, and what i'll call her. reason being, who the hell am i to decide that i know your sexuality better than you?
i once dated a guy who was in the closet, and called himself bisexual but wanted the world to think he was straight. i made the mistake of telling this to a girlfriend of mine, thinking she'd enjoy the laugh since she and i both found his alpha-male behavior to be a bit over the top, and the idea that THIS guy enjoyed cocks in his ass was pretty funny. but she wound up spreading the rumor that he's gay to his entire frat house and her whole group of friends. when i called her on it, she said "i have no problem at all with gay people, i love gay people, i just hate it when they won't admit it!" made me sick to my stomach.
basically, that's my problem with continuum theory - if 90% of the men of the world say that they're straight and have no homo urges at all, while some or even many of them may be lying, i don't think it's my place to disbelieve any of them individually.
that said, the idea of an evenly distributed continuum isn't any more silly than the idea of only 3 sexualities carved into stone - all men, all women, and half half. i, however, seem to be an all men kind of guy - if i had any shred of attraction to women i'd have pounced on it long ago.