Discussion in 'On Topic' started by Japan Four, Feb 19, 2008.
any thoughts on how i can start doing this?
yes i am serious.
For what purpose?
to avoid being the one used
That's what hookers are for.
read ross jeffries: how to get the women you desire in bed
and the assholes guide to handling chicks. once you have those both read
you will be set.
exactly, im too much of a gentleman, i guess ladies dont like that?
im over it now.
Always a good idea to let bitter feelings rule the kind of person you will be
If your problem is being to much of a gentleman, then stop being so much of a gentleman. Its as simple as you make it.
if you cant beat em join em. it comes down to the point where you get hurt so much, sanity and self preservation become paramount.
One day you'll learn...
That's a fucking cop-out and you know it. What's really going on is that your feelings are hurt and your ego is deflated so you feel it's easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn form them.
Man up, get some confidence and figure out who you are before you go out trying to "use women" to make yourself feel better.
Wow, nicely put
lol, you'll grow out of this mindset and find a healthy medium soon. in the meantime, happy hating
What a pussy
there's nothing wrong with being a gentleman as long as you do it right and don't be a bitch about it.
You need to read this post if you want to strike a balance with women:
well i wasn't expecting it to be permanent, i just wanted to know how.
the "how" is easy. take the time to read, observe and experiment with women. find out what they respond to and then use it to your advantage. learn sales tactics and communication skills (verbal and non-verbal) in order to persuade people. lastly, change yourself into a highly desirable person.
people are willing to do a lot in order to get what they want, if you're a person that people want, you'll be able to pull the proper strings in order to get what you want. just remember to always maintain a "me first" mentality in everything you do.
Don't even start
Don't lower yourself to a user's level, what good will that accomplish? Just keep trying to find someone who is worth your time, money and love. Finding the right person is alot like going to a garage sale...alot of shit to sift through before finding the perfect treasure.
It's not a cop-out. It's a rite of passage. He needs to experience the dark side in order to find the right balance for himself.
My God, I hope you're being facetious. If not, you've missed the entire point.
You sound like you're light years away from being able to do something like that... it takes a certain charm to manipulate people. If you really want to understand how to do it, you have to go out and try things for yourself. You'll fall a lot, but you'll learn.
Nothing you read will teach you how to do that (or anything else involving human interaction).
Are you kidding? The john busts a nut, the hooker makes fifty bucks. I'm pretty sure it's the john who's getting used.