FRK i want bigger and better things

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  1. taintedutopia

    taintedutopia New Member

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    im kinda running out of ideas.
    since i've started dating my
    new bf we've experienced
    lots of new things...first time
    anal last night :hsd: and sex
    toys etc. nothing extreme just
    a vibe i guess..but sex toys are
    pretty limited with us. I mean
    he's pretty much the best
    sexual experience i've ever had.
    I had my first orgasm with someone
    else with him...etc. and i mean i
    just feel like i need some things to
    spice it up. He's a huge turn on to me
    and its the same for him with me
    but i jsut want to try new things. I'm
    jsut out of ideas. I'm not into anything
    to extreme i guess but just little things
    that are fun to do and spice it up?
    anybody have any ideas?
     
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    xinster New Member

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    choking (not to the point of unconsciousness), (finger)nails in the skin, little softcore sm things like that i really dig.
     
  3. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    rimming is hot
     
  4. drpepperbandit

    drpepperbandit "You can't find the right answer if you ask the wr

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    i read your post like it was a poem :o
     
  5. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    also, i would say don't refer to wanting bigger and better things.

    thats not nice to say about his peen
     
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    :rofl:
    :mamoru:
     
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    OP posted this in vag and i said im not answering your post until you re format it :mamoru:
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    New positions, new locations, Role play, bondage, S&M... there's a LOT you can do.
     
  9. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    I think what would be hot would be if you got a kiddie pool and a bottle of veggitable oil and slathered each other in the oil and wrestled and stuff.
     
  10. taintedutopia

    taintedutopia New Member

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    idk we kinda have a hard time with positions...i know that sounds kinda weird but we do nothing extreme there, idk if it has something to do with our size differneces or what...but i mean i was just looking for ideas to spice things up but nothing too extreme...
     
  11. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    what kind of difficulty with positions? whats the size differnece?
     
  12. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    well. Try a blindfold and some ice cubes. :naughty:

    Sensual massage, shower play, new toys?

    and what's so hard about new positions? He's too tall, not long enough too long?? As a fat ass with a fat bf I know that some things can be near impossible, but you just have to get creative. Have you tried riding him in a chair? Kitchen counters are great for getting bent over and taken from behind, so are the edges of bathtubs.....
     
  13. The Fugue

    The Fugue New Member

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    Was just about to say the same thing. I kept.... stopping..... and trying to make....... things fit.
     
  14. Dominion

    Dominion I believe you have my stapler.

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    I think what she means, and don't be offended if I get this wrong is one is quite a bit larger than the other. Which I can attest this is a problem. And one of the best things that happened to us when we started losing weight 2 years ago was being able to do doggy for the first time :p

    It took a year, and we were finally at that point. Now I'm trying to lose more to get some of the last bit of belly fat off.
     
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    Heehee can't wait to try that with the new vinyl sheet we got :hsd:
     
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    I've never done it with a fat guy. What's that like? I imagine it would be fun! I love it when he gets sweaty as hell and I smell his musk and I feel our skin slipping against each other... it makes my pussy so fucking wet! I imagine chubby people sweat more and faster?

    So did you ever answer what you meant by "size difference?"
     
  17. affende

    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    ironically...people that exercise regularly sweat more quickly that people that dont.

    but ontopic...go for a vid :cool:
     
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    there are some pretty mild toys out there made for couples to use together.
    there are also games to give you some direction if you're feeling shy....
    we have a little bathtub game
    it's got a bunch of balls like the kind you find in a gumball machine
    filled with little plastic slips that look like fortunes from cookies
    each one has a little message for something you can do for your partner or something s/he can do for you
    it's cute and pretty mild - if you're looking to start gently?

    i buy my lingerie from an independent shop owner who also sells toys, etc. she's been extremely helpful - most anyone who works in a shop like that would be more than willing to help.

    it really depends on where you want to go with your "spice"
    gentle, freaky, intimate....
     
  19. taintedutopia

    taintedutopia New Member

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    sorry i haven't been around to answer your ?s but i'll try to answer everything now. size difference, im 5'2" and about 115 lbs and he's 6' something and about 200 something lbs....maybe more. idk exactly. i love him so i hate to bring up the weight difference bc its not important to me, it just makes things harder. I don't want to make him feel self consious around me bc i like him just the way he is. Your ideas are good. I think im just looking for kind of intimate but out of the ordinary things to do. Maybe little games, things he wouldn't expect, just to spice things up and keep them different. We're very open with each other and we're discussing new things lately so maybe if anyone has some more ideas i'll find them just as helpful. All ideas are appreciated. Thanks! Oh and sorry about the poemish thing before lol. Idk what got into me lol. *shrugs*
     

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