I used to think some women were sincere when they said...

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  1. Mugwump

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    "I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now." (Note: I said some women, not all, because I do realize that most women just want to let men down easy by saying that.)

    But now? Well now... I realize that ALL women are lying when they say this shit and just wanna let men down easy. Yes, ALL of them. I truly believe that even the most independent woman would wrap her legs around Prince William if he asked her out for a cup of tea.

    I had so much in common with this stupid bitch. Yet, in the end, it finally came out: "I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now." And 1 month later? She has a guy wrapped around her finger. Fuck that shit... It's now reached insulting.
     
  2. lauren

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    yep. i wasnt looking for a bf, but i couldnt not date him when i found him. if the attraction is there, you dont just let it go. you have to give it a shot, even if its not the most convienent.
     
  3. Mugwump

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    I just want women to give me a chance sometimes, meaning a date or two, and I can't even get that out of them. It's like they've made their choice from one conversation.

    I know that I aim for the harder to get, but I've tried lowering my standards before and it didn't work because the attraction was missing.
     
  4. darkrick

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    I get that a lot. And it is insulting.
    Especially when you do see them with a guy not long after.
    However, I do get the occasional kick out of their "omg I'm so sorry" expression when you catch them :o

    The worst one I had, was a similar situation to your. Had a lot in common, and out came the "not looking for a boy friend right now" and behold, just over three weeks later she's dating a stiff who bores her to tears because of his money :ugh: Have to admit I was happy she gave me the flick :hsugh:
     
  5. Brigante

    Brigante i'm a lurker without an avatar, deal with it

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    my girlfriend made it a point when we started hanging out that she didnt' want a boyfriend. not just not looking for one, but flat out doesn't want one. and we've been together for 9 months ever since. because of that. i don't think girls really know what they ever want. it's just a mind game. something to tell you when they dont' know what to tell you right then and there - like something to just fill in space until everything is all figured out in their head.
     
  6. Mugwump

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    "Do I know you?"
     
  7. Cerridwen

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    Why can't you be happy that she's making an attempt to spare your feelings?
     
  8. Mugwump

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    If she wants to spare my feelings, she can disappear completely and not walk around like nothing happened.
     
  9. Cerridwen

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    So if she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, she should just disappear and make every attempt to not run into you etc?
    Do you truly believe that men and women cannot be friends?
     
  10. Mugwump

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    So basically, in your world, sparing my feelings is lying to me and then walking around with another guy like nothing has happened to me?

    That's friend material right there!
     
  11. Vailripper

    Vailripper Daywalkers have feelings too.

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    You just need too not take it so personally...different people have different tastes, nothing wrong with that.
     
  12. Vailripper

    Vailripper Daywalkers have feelings too.

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    expecting her to "dissapear" isn't exactly the most logical choice either.

    What do you want her to say? I seriously doubt you will accept anything she does as being "respectful".
     
  13. Mugwump

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    "I don't like you like that."
     
  14. Cerridwen

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    Be completely honest here. Would would you LIKE her to do? Hide in her house and not go on with her life because she isn't interested in you in anything more than a friend but you are?
     
  15. giapia

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    rent Hitch? :dunno:
     
  16. Icuradik

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    this is seriously better than lying..
     
  17. bandwagon

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    It is a shit test. The real men (the ones who she wants to be with) will continue persuing her anyway. The weak men will go :wtc: and go listen to Dashboard.
     
  18. krott5333

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    well instead of lying, why not just say "no, im not interested" or some shit like that
     
  19. Mugwump

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    I've said that to women and have had them say it back to me (in one way or another). I've had women tell me I was attractive but that they wanted to "sit on the fence" or keep looking around. It's not that hard, and if you do it early enough, you can still be friends.

    But nooo... nooo... women gotta lead men on for awhile, test the water, see if they peak their interest (before even dating them) and then lie to their faces.
     
  20. Mugwump

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    The chase is fun, but if they reject me once, I won't pursue them ever again. It's called dignity and maturity.

    Games are for kids.
     
  21. NCS

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    no dude it could be honest. they could not be looking. but no woman will deny a guy if she's attracted to him
     
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    Real men don't beg.
     
  23. Vailripper

    Vailripper Daywalkers have feelings too.

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    Men who keep persuing her show desperation, I can't think of any woman who admires that.
     
  24. Dongsy Normus

    Dongsy Normus fag

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    been there. play with em while you can.. i did anways
     
  25. Foo Lyn Roo

    Foo Lyn Roo New Member

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    Many people cannot DO confrontation.
    Accept it and move on.
    If she let you down - hard or easy - the outcome is still the same.
    She wasn't interested IN YOU.
    stop making it about the method she used to dump you, and deal with the fact that she dumped you.
    You wil be a better person for it.. honestly.
     

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