Why does everyone have this mentality with every fucking relationship they are in? It can't just be ignorance, people can't be that ignorant overall. I've known people in the worst relationships possible, and the one getting the shit end of the string is saying "But I love him/her, I think we can make it work, blahblahblahblah." This mentality is, by in large, extremely harmful. It's what gets incompatible people married. It's what keeps people who at their core are completely wrong for each other in a 3 year relationship. "But we have to make it work!" No. You really don't. 'Failing' at a relationship is not only normal, but completely acceptable, there are very few people in the world you'll really be compatible with, and as soon as someone proves they aren't that one, why should you stay with them instead of finding something better? I especially see this in people that 'Fall in love' early in the relationship and think their partner is 'the one' for stupid reasons that often amount to nothing more than desire to be in a relationship. Why are people so susceptible to this mentality, of having to save every relationship they are in?