SRS I think tonight is my last night being single.

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  1. Swak

    Swak Artificially known as ObsoleteAsian

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    For some reason a lot of events have been building up especially in the last week (started a few months back). But I think tonight I will have to make a choice, and I think I am going to give up my single-ness.

    I really can't tell if I am :wiggle: or :ugh:
     
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    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Well do what you got to do.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :cliffs:

    the original post gave so many details...
     
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    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Hell yeah it did.

    I don't know what to do with all the information!
     
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  7. Swak

    Swak Artificially known as ObsoleteAsian

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    Sorry, kind of recollecting my thoughts on the situation. Basically as it stands I have been spending a majority of time with this one girl, pretty much the only girl I have showed a lot of affection to. In turn last weekend it was her and I birthday, about a week apart. But basically our conversations became a lot more risque and physical, you know when you joke around with girls with underlying meanings.*Speak of the devil as I am typing this she just text me*.. Basically tho the situation is she is coming over tonight and probably staying the night. This isn't really different since she has stayed over many times and we have been close before. I guess now its becoming more serious is my point. So in turn it looks like I may sacrifice my single life of having these certain 4 girls fight over me to take her... But I really do think I like her, which is making me all over the map with my decisions.
     
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    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Well you should sit down again and recollect your thoughts before you make a decision that your going to regret in the long run.
     
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    If you can see long term love with each other, go for it.

    If not, do not.
     
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    From the sounds of it, you should do her a favor and not

    if you arent into her enough that you WANT to be her man, then you shouldnt
     
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    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Sounds like you are settling and I am sure she deserves better. When you say you are sacrificing your singleness or having 4 girls vie for your attention, then you are really saying that you don't like her that much cause you think of it as a sacrifice...you should actually want to date someone, not feel like you are giving something up.

    That's all I got to say
     
  13. Swak

    Swak Artificially known as ObsoleteAsian

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    I guess my explanation was a little wack. Last night though. I pretty much settled on what I want to do. I don't feel like I am giving up anything in order to be with this girl. More of that I am letting someone inside my barrier. The reason I brought up the 4 girls is because all of them have been banging at this constantly. But only this one girl has created a spark. I even told her last night, that its been a while since I have felt this comfortable around a girl and it was nice to feel something more than lust. It was an awesome night with me because of the simplicity of our interaction. Last night basically spent most of the night cuddling and just talking to each other and I enjoyed the shit out of it. I havn't felt pleasure from something as simple as that in a while so I am still kind of shocked. But in honesty, I like her and want to pursue something more with her.
     
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