A friend of mine has been having some problems in his marriage recently and he keeps calling me about it... the problem is I think the only reason he calls me is so I'll tell him what he needs to hear. =\ Hes been telling me about all the changes going on with his wife, that she's buying all kinds of sexy new cloths and underwear (that she never really wears around him), going to a tanner (which she never did before), working out, going into other rooms to talk on the phone or even leaving the house to talk on the cell phone and stuff like that. He works a full time job, working a day shift, and when he gets home thats usually the time she leaves to go "do things", because they only have one vehicle, and then shes usually gone for at least 5 hours at a time. He says they talk normally, that she doesn't seem to be angry with him when they speak, or sound annouyed, that other then these strange changes and wierd phone calls everything seems normal... but deep down he feels something is wrong, and when he calls me its like he wants me to tell him everythings normal and fine, but really I think shes cheating on him, because I'm friends with her to and all these new behaviors are waaaaaay out of the norm for her. I'm I being stupid? Should I just tell him its all cool and not to worry about it, or should I tell him what I really think?? I also think for him to find out for sure he should tap his phone and try to find out who it is shes been talking to so much and why she can never talk on the phone around him, but where not sure how. How do you tap your own phone?