I think of an ex when i masturbate.

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  1. -=Likwid=-

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    My gf has a problem with this for some reason. We're in a long distance relationship, so we need release somehow. We've made our own pornos when we've been together, but I just close my eyes and think of my ex now and then.

    Does she have a right to be upset/angry/etc about this? Is it breakup material?
     
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    :rofl: I can't believe you were dumb enough to tell her you think of an ex instead of her when you get off.
     
  3. XaPU!M

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    Why the hell would you tell your gf you think of your ex while wanking it?

    There are just some things you don't tell people.

    As an answer, yes I could see her being upset about that. I'd be a little more upset that you're a moron though.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: Are you serious!? You really don't get why she's angry???

    Dude, I'm all for a "release," but when you have to use your ex and not your current girlfriend to get off you need to break up just so you can get over your ex. I told you before you shouldn't have jumped into the relationship and this proves it.
     
  5. -=Likwid=-

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    To clarify, she asked, and I'm not one to lie in a relationship.

    So if the situation were flipped where my gf is thinking about her ex when getting off now and then, it's the simple case of her not being over her ex and I need to eject her ass out of my life?
     
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  7. XaPU!M

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    This is one thing you could have lied about and not worried. One of those things that the lie is better for you, and also very harmless.

    Because who the hell cares if you think of your ex, but you're still dumb for telling her.


    And no you are normal thinking of your ex, it doesn't mean you aren't over her (it could though). That's what the Spank Bank is for... an accumulation of images/thoughts/girls that can help get you going.
     
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    Dude you're kidding right?


    ...





    :bowrofl:
     
  9. Bacardi 151

    Bacardi 151 New Member

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    Wait wat :rofl:
     
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    ditto

    WTF man? You retarded?

    Don't do that ever again!!!
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    The facts are this:

    You mentioned that you still use your ex to bust a nut, even though you and the new girlfriend have done plenty of hot, kinky things you could use to jack it to. The fact that you brought up your current sexual acts followed by "but I still jack it to the ex" means something is up.

    You know the two of us have talked at length about your ex and I was definitely wary of you starting this relationship.....but can you honestly truly say you are over your ex?

    If you say yes to that, why not conciously use more images in your spank bank rolodex of your current girlfriend OR even a porn?
     
  12. antihero

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    are you f'en retarded? its messed up as hell to do it, and beyond stupid to tell her you do it.

    yes, you are in the wrong. way in the wrong.
     
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    no shit!
     
  14. Falconer

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    what would you think if your gf told you she thinks of HER ex?

    You basically just told her this:

    "you're not attractive enough to get me off, so I think about someone who is hotter than you."


    Sorry dude, your relationship is over. If my gf told me that, I don't think I could ever have sex with her again.
     
  15. ldaggerl

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    A. Your seriously fucking retarded!!! I don't care who you are, Jesus himself wouldn't tell his G/F he thinks of his ex. lol

    B. DON'T TELL YOUR CURRECT G/F YOU THINK OF YOU EX WHEN GETTING OFF!!!!!
     
  16. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You can ask anyone in here and they'll tell you I am a strong proponent of full disclosure in relationships. That being said, even I would have lied in that situation.
     
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    did she say "do you think of your ex when you jack it?" OR "who do you think of when you jack it?"

    if it was the 2nd question, then you should have told her everyone BUT the ex. unless the ex is the only person you think about EVER when you jack in, in which case, dump the gf and spend some time getting over the ex before you get into a relationship
     
  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl:

    WOOOOOOOW...
     
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    Yeah what were you thinking?
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I don't care if you think about molesting your unborn child when you masterbate- it's a fucking fantasy. But for God's sake, you don't tell your gf that shit. You gonna point out every girl you want to fuck when you're hanging out with your gf too? Maybe tell the nazis that Anne Frank is upstairs while you're at it? Fuck, man.
     
  21. BlackIce72

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    well at least you didn't tell her you think about HER ex

    that would be more grounds for breakup

    or 3some

    a sad sad 3some
     
  22. just_another_on

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    Or a camping trip.
     
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  24. Abomb

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    sounds like a troll thread :rofl:
     
  25. teep

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    :bowrofl:

    tell her she's been getting fat lately
     

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