I think my dick is broken v. cant finish

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  1. radeon

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    Hey everyone,

    Ive never posted about this before, but its becoming a sticking point with my girlfriend and I and i need some advice. We're both 22.

    Her and I dont have sex, but often fool around. I'll give her oral, and then she'll return the favor. Problem is, at least 80 percent of the time I just cant get past "that point" and climax. Ive tried not masturbating for days before I know I'm going to see her (we live a little ways apart for the meantime so I know before hand), and it really doesnt seem to make a difference.

    I understand that this is probably all in my head but like, what do i do? Its not like it doesnt feel good, it does, but it just bothers the hell out of me Ive never had this problem (well at least for this long, generally the first time or two in the past it'd be like this and then be fine going forward) before.

    advice please :sadwavey:

    thanks
     
  2. Ford4Life

    Ford4Life Guest

    Some guys don't get off from blow jobs, just the way it is.

    Maybe your current girlfriend just isn't any good at giving head. A lot of women aren't.
     
  3. radeon

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    I dunno, it works sometimes though and not others? lol
     
  4. Viper

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    I've never had a woman make me cum from giving me head. :dunno:

    I don't worry too much about it, because I'd rather just fuck them anyway. :dunno:

    It's amazing how terrible some girls are at giving head, though. :mamoru:
     
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    stop jacking off.
     
  6. radeon

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    I stopped for 5 days before i saw her today, and it made no difference
     
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    skull fuck her
     
  8. radeon

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    maybe i should sneak fuck her til she loves me, faggot! amirite
     
  9. gkremian

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    It takes a lot of work for me to pop off from oral sex, sometimes it just doesn't happen. It's not that the head isn't good, because it is, it just doesn't really work that well for me.
     
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    i give all my girlfriends warning that oral is strictly foreplay for me
     
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    Your dick isn't broken. Everyone else is pretty much right. It's not unusual to not cum from head. I've only done it a handful of times in my life. You could try fucking her face, but I doubt she'd enjoy it. Takes a special kind of lady for that. Or here's a novel idea... you could just have sex.
     
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    I suggest she learn to use her hands as well.
     
  14. ForgottenSpiral

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    :werd: That is excellent advice. If she can get you off with just her hands then hands + mouth = win.
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

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    I'm confused...You're telling me that this girl gives you blowjobs on the regular and you never cum, correct?

    WTF does this girl say after the 15th time you don't blow your load? I mean at what point do you say "ok, nevermind."
     
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    are you on any anti-depressant medications?
     
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    for me the problem is when they break rythm. I brought this up to my gf and after that it has been great. Now I cum everytime i get a bj
     
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    Tell her to start using hands, stroking and conditioning of the balls/shaft is a must.
     
  19. saosko

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    How ugly is she? seriously.
     
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    I think that has a lot to do with why I don't cum either. It's like, girls will start to get to the point where I'm about to come and then break the rhythm and it's done. Grrrrrrreat.
     
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    I always make myself cum faster if it's strictly a hook up / ugly bitch :rofl:.
     
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    If you masterbate everyday, you need more than just 5 days to lower your stamina. That shit takes time to get sensitive again. How often do you masterbate? Try not to do it more than once a week.
     
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    ...... :ugh:

    We don't have dicks. If you weren't so afraid to speak up maybe we would know what you want.
     
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    It doesn't bother me, I just use oral sex as foreplay. And sorry if that came across like a complaint :rofl:
     
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  25. radeon

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    I have come before a few times ...
     

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