i think its part of the entire healing process...

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  1. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    but i like to wish bad things for the people i used to date. By bad things i mean i hope that they meet somebody that isn't even comparable to who they lost. I get over it after a while and hope for the best for them. Maybe i am just strange?!
     
  2. Z PYRATE

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    healing? you obviously dont care about her happiness. If she didnt want to be with you anymore, it wasnt meant to be...hope that she meets someone someday who is compatible. Would you want her hoping you found a chick who might rip your heart to shreds?

    You'll get over it, were all just people.

    Gotta be optimistic, life is too short to be pissed off all the time.
     
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    1200mk Still same OG

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    its like trying to be optimistic when someone dies... there isnt much to be optimistic about.
     
  5. Z PYRATE

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    My stepmothers brother in law died this month...he had cancer in almost all of his bone marrow. Was blind in one eye (within the last month) was in pain/drugged up for most of the last months of his life...I'm happy he's dead. I dont even believe in heaven or hell but I think he's better off now. Life goes on, considering our lives really dont do anything in the grand scheme (universally) we're just here to enjoy it.

    without good there would be no evil, so without breakups and bad times there would be no coming together or good times....so everyone needs to STFU and get on with life. Be happy, life isn't meant to be cried over, it's meant to be lived.
     
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  7. chica&buddies

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    :eek3: you seem wiser than your years! :bigthumb:

    every experience we encounter in life is a learning experience. everything happens for a reason. the obstacles we face, mold and shape who we are. look at everything positively because being pessimistic surely won't change a thing. :)
     
  8. Z PYRATE

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    chica can I order you in a cute little blonde version, that lives near me? :x:
     
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    :rofl: no, but thanks for asking ;)
     
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    Well, it was worth a shot anyway...I'll keep looking :wtc:
     
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    how long does the healing process take? :o
     
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    depends on the person actually. if you just spend your time sitting and thinking about it, it will take a long time. i had a similar thing happen to me like you did. Just go hang with friends and go have fun. you wont think about her and you will eventualy get over her. it tooke me a little bit. Just hang in there. Go hang with your friends. thats my best advice.
     
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    yeah ill try to do that more after tuesday. maybe we will get back together an di wont have to heal :x:
     
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    As long as you get over it and wish the best for them, that's all that matters.
     

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