I think I'm ready to swear off women ... v.rant/vent

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  1. Perfect Speed

    Perfect Speed OT Supporter

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    I'll try and keep it short...

    My ex-gf of 3.5 years (we broke up about a year ago) won't get back together with me (She had grown a good deal in the time apart and I wanted to give it another shot) and led me on for a few weeks about it.

    Another girl I've known for 6 years and we've always got along told me she didn't want to ruin the friendship (after agreeing we work so well together) after I told her I'd like to date her. And then a few weeks later she makes out with a friend of mine she just was introduced to a week before.

    And the other girls I've met, seem to be few and far between and either lose interest in me right away or I lose interest in them right away. The one or two quality ones got away.


    I don't think I look THAT bad but jeezus...
    /rant


    *edit* not thinking of going gay. Just thinking I'm gonna stay the hell away from anything with a vagina for a while.
    *edit edit* - I guess I wonder to a point also if girls think I'm unattractive...
     
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  2. Vysion

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    Never tell a girl that you want to date her.
     
  3. Ford4Life

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    Going gay?
     
  4. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    1. breathe
    2. calm down
    3. go out there and keep playing the game of life.
     
  5. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    Don't swear off women... they just have the edge in the dating and relationship world. You just need to learn how they work so that as a man you gain the edge back.
     
  6. Abomb

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    well if you are seriously thinking about going gay id suggest you check out the closet sub section
     
  7. giz

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    I think a lot of us have been there man. I'm the same way... I lose interest so quick it's depressing sometimes... but it can also be a godsend. I've had one girlfriend in my life, and I feel like I did love her. But swearing off women simply because I had my heart broken was never an option... one of these days you'll meet somebody that loves you back and the rest will be history. Hang in there.
     
  8. giz

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    also, the less you dwell on your situation, the better chance you'll meet the one that's right for you. make it a focus in your life to improve yourself, and you'll have your choice in women.
     
  9. Bob Brown

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    quoted for making me laugh out loud today. :bigthumb:
     
  10. Abomb

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    :rolleyes:
     
  11. sportsjunkie

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    came in here to post something similar :h5:

    if you don't focus on it, it'll come to you. you're a good guy :)
     
  12. chica&buddies

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    tis true. :)

    correct again.
     
  13. giz

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    women are attracted to anything and everything under the sun, and the same can be said for men. no matter what you look like, there are women out there that will think you are the cutest thing around.

    that being said there are ways to improve your attractiveness, and I'm not referring to appearance. ambition, charisma, and a love for life itself will go a lot further than anything you could ever do with your hair or clothing.

    it goes back to what I said before... it's fine if you'd like to step away from women for awhile, but take the opportunity to better yourself. a good first step would be to eliminate the tendency to dwell on what women think about you (or I should say, what you think they think about you). :bigthumb:
     
  14. giz

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    I'm sure he'll lead a very fulfilling life following this advice. :ugh:
     
  15. Perfect Speed

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    I just don't think I'm that bad looking... maybe I'm wrong tho.
    I should post a pic or two...

    24.

    *edit* - realized you didn't mean me - so in that case... G-burg? I lived there for a while. :)
     
  16. giz

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    You're probably right :dunno: but at the end of the day it matters 0%
     
  17. fluentinsilence

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    A buddy of mine, we both know the same girl, he flat out asked if she would have sex with him. He seemed surprised by her response, like he thought that was going to work.
     
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    As for the threadstarter, I got jaded quite a while ago and having since swore them off, I've felt a bit more at ease when around others whereas other guys are too self-conscious and preoccupied of whether they're doing/looking the right thing.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

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    24, why?
     
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  22. k624ash

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    women only have the edge if you think they do
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

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    yes & no
     
  24. GD26

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    No worries Mr.Seven, I'm playing a bullshit game with one right now too. Need to talk more in private i'm a good listener man.
     
  25. Perfect Speed

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    tarfside road, not far from the airpark... and it was in 2005.
    over a beer sometime perhaps
     

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