My gf and I have been together for almost 8 months. It's a long distance relationship, too. She lives 300 km (190 miles) away. We get to see each other most every 2nd or 3rd weekend, depending on how our work schedules pan out. I do love her, too. We do everything together, and the sex is awesome, for both of us. BUt the past few weeks, I've been feeling a little lost. I can't concentrate. I can't carry on a conversation with her on the phone, simply because I really don't have much to talk about. I'm not a phone nut anyways, but we talk most every evening, unless I'm at darts on Tuesdays, and I get home late from that. I just don't feel I can put into this relationship what she puts into it and asks me to do. Financially, I can't really afford to do much "fun stuff" and have to really scrounge and scrape to save enough money to enjoy a weekend with her. It's hard to explain. My heart wants to keep her and make this work, but something in my brain is clicking the wrong way and It's not putting any effort into this relationship. But I don't want to hurt her, either. She's strong willed, and independant, but she was a good friend for a long time before we went out, and I know her so well. What the fuck is wrong with me?!