I think I know why this girl wouldn't give me a BJ

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  1. Casino

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    So a couple nights ago I was hooking up the girl, but she just wouldn't give me a BJ, there was no changing her mind. Then today she friended me on facebook and I'm looking at her pics and i notice on a few of them she has red spots on her lips? Could that be herpes on the lip? Maybe thats why she wouldn't give me head? What should I do from here
     
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    Abort
     
  3. BradUF

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    Lucky for you she cared.
     
  4. Casino

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    shoudl i be worrying that i got oral herpes? like should i not hook up with any one for awhile or what? if i got it i dont want to spread it
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Wow, way to jump to conclusions :hsugh:
     
  6. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Oral Herpies causes cold sores. Yes it can be transmitted to the genitals, yes it can be transmitted to your mouth, yes it can be transmitted even when you aren't showing signs of an outbreak.

    What you "should" do with this knowledge is up to you....afterall, you'll have to live with the consequences of your decision.
     
  7. BornToFly

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    could be I supose, but some girls just don't like to give head.
     
  8. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    maybe your game sucks?
     
  9. Falconer

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    On a related note, if you're "hooking up" with a chick, how do you get her to give you head INSTEAD of fucking?

    I don't mean she sucks your dick a little and then you fuck. That's not a blowjob. I mean an actual blowjob.
     
  10. trudat

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    seems like all the girls i meet are this way, when am i gonna meet the one girl that loves head so i can experience good fucking head. SERIOUSLY!!!
     
  11. fray

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    do things for her that are focused on her and not just sex, so then you can have things done to you that are all focused on you? :dunno: works if she believes in equality and isn't selfish.
     
  12. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Here's a thought ...

    Why not ASK HER instead of OT???????? :ugh:

     
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    qtf.

    that, and don't obsess about it.
     
  14. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    I had a similar situation (minus the spots on her lips) and was wondering why this girl I'm seeing would not progress further pass making out and Hj's. When she finally did give me one, she said she normally does not do it but she really likes me....

    But I have done things for her that are focused on her strictly, sexually and non-sexually, so I can see your point.
     
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  15. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    ugh, no
     
  16. b16

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    could be like my g/f and won't do it unless the planets align correctly and a comet is flying by earths' fucking atmosphere.
     
  17. ww_Crimson

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    I've actually talked to plenty of girls who think giving head is "absolutely disgusting and they'll never do it" (so they say ;)). It's kind of irritating looking at the one way street they live on. They expect us to go down on them but refuse to reciprocate. I'm not saying all women are like that, but I know quite a few.
     
  18. Bugalu

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    sounds like your meeting the wrong girls.

    My last girlfriend gave me head 3 times in 7 months.

    my new girl gave me head 3 times in one day. swallowing every time.
     
  19. Pea-Ta

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    My girl said she didn't want to and would never give head, and she would never receive ether, well that changed. lol
     
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    I said girls I know, not girls I spend time with ;) Some girls like it, some girls don't. One of my ex's wasn't interested at all, the other was the same story as your "new girl". It was like instead of giving me a kiss goodbye I'd get a blowjob.
     
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    just straight up ask her.
     
  22. Bugalu

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    Isn't it a beautiful thing? :bigthumb:
     
  23. lauren

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    who usually instigates the fucking? guys? just have her go down and never escalate it. she'll likely follow your lead.
     
  24. Falconer

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    I'm interested in female's opinions on this.

    It seems like usually when that happens, the chick will go down on you for a while and then come up and want to have sex. I'm just like "nope, back down you go." :mamoru:
     
  25. lauren

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    thats what i would do, or just keep my hand on top of her head. she'll get the hint.
     

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