Well, yet again, when it comes to a girl that I never got into a relationship with, I feel like I got kicked in the stomach with the outcome of things. I think I just get too attached too quickly to the person. With a couple previous girls, things turned to shit because I basically showed them too much attention, and they were scared of it. They weren't used to it, they wanted that pursuit. Whatever, that's what I get for going after girls younger than me that still have a high school mentality. This one, we started hanging out quite a bit the last couple weeks and talking on the phone. I truly, truly liked this girl, and judging on her actions, thought she was feeling the same way. However, in the back of my mind I had the thought that she was seeing/talking to another guy as well. Turns out she was, as I heard from her brother. Then I find out that he overnighted her some stuff while she was on her trip. I got a call the second day of her trip, and didn't get another one. I didn't want to call her, I felt like seeing if she called me. When everything kind of came to together, I just felt like shit. I fell hard for this girl, and it didn't go my way again. Granted, it's still early, but I'm not even sure if I want it anymore. It's not the greatest situation, and I think if I even tried, I'd be competing with the other guy, which I'm not going to do. So basically, like I said, I think it's just that I fall too hard too fast for a girl, and when things don't go my way, it hits me hard. Every single girl has been like this since my ex, and frankly, I'm getting sick of it. I don't like the feeling, and I want it to end. I'm not going to sit around here and mope about this one. There's no reason to. There's girls that I want to talk to, and am going to. But I'm afraid of repeating things all over again. How do I stop doing this? Something in me changed going from my past girlfriends to the current girls I talk to. How do I end it, how do I change? I know it's nobody but me, things won't work out sometimes, and I'm just running into that, but I'm letting my emotions get too high.