Met this girl, she's 22 (i'm 25) really hot, fun to be with, have great sex, etc, etc So we've been going out for a month. At first she didn't want to be my girlfriend, she just wanted to be friends with benefits. She has told me that I'm the best sex she's ever had so I feel like I've got her locked-in in that department. I'm usually terrible in bed but there's something about her that makes me rise to the occasion. But she doesn't want to become emotionally attached because she's still not over her last boyfriend. You see, she went to school in California and still yearns to move back. She would still be with him if she didn't have to move back to Boston after college was over. But she's here, she had to break up with him, he reacted badly, and now she's here in Boston with me. So a few dates after she said she just wanted to be FWB she told me that she was re-thinking that plan and said that she really wanted to be committed to each other and be gf/bf. I was happy. Then a few nights ago I sent a txt message that I regret now that just said "I think I'm falling for you" and she responded with "I think I love you" Great right? No Because now she can't say it to my face... or say it ever again. I tried to bring it up when she was over last night and we got into this big discussion about how she's still not over her ex, even though she hates him with a passion, thinks he's immature, and would never be with him again (I guess now that she's had me) But when I try to bring up the subject of love she begins to back off, saying things like "I'm just going to break your heart. My wants and desires will change and I will leave you" and then she said "I feel like we should just be friends" And then we had wild passionate sex which she said was one of the best she's had yet.