I think I just lost the one guy I ever cared about

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  1. Plexi_Glas

    Plexi_Glas Guest

    It was a whole bunch of misunderstanding and a lot of confusion, he won't talk to me much less look at me... I have no clue what to do, this guy was my bestfriend and the only guy I have ever truely loved... as of right now he won't tell me if he wants to be with me or much of anything and it hurts. I have done nothing but bend over backwards to bring a smile to his face and now I think it might all be gone... sorry for this emo babble but I just need to release.
     
  2. millero

    millero Aluminum Member

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    highschool?
     
  3. Plexi_Glas

    Plexi_Glas Guest

    no i'm 20
     
  4. 00600

    00600 New Member

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    When you're 30 you'll understand.

    Shouldn't this be moved?
     
  5. Rellik

    Rellik New Member

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    maybe you're ugly and he got turned off when you tried to make a move
     
  6. Hawkeye

    Hawkeye i'm a stranger here, just blowed in your town

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    well, if OT were a shrink, they'd like to know more about the situation, and yes this is asylum material. tell uncle hawkeye all about it.
     
  7. Bigsnake

    Bigsnake OT Supporter

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    So, did something happen?
     
  8. Daddy O

    Daddy O Active Member

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    And this guy is still in high school....or maybe he failed out?:mamoru:

    You probably didn't do anything wrong. It's just that you two are very young, and there is nothing more cruel than a 20 year old boy who is listening to his "buds, crew, whatever" to find a way to walk away from a relationship. They just don't have the maturity. When you understand that, and it's not easy to do that at your age, you will realize what happened.

    After you get over him, date older guys - (25-28). They most likely won't have the same maturity problems.
     
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    i'm 20 and i resent this post.
    then again, all us young'ns are the same, right? :hsugh:
     
  10. Daddy O

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    If you're not mature enough to realize this then yes. Thank you for proving my point.
     
  11. ItsStockOfficer

    ItsStockOfficer Active Member

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    He's right. Even those of us who were always a bit somber and serious change a lot. I'd say change is continuous to at least 23-26.

    But props on naming yourself after my favorite smilie.
     
  12. Sh0t

    Sh0t New Member

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    How hot are you? If the answer is no "not very", there is your answer. Sad but true.
     
  13. Irvin Washington

    Irvin Washington New Member

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    What exactly took place for this to happen?
     
  14. FuzzyBunny

    FuzzyBunny I Doubt It

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    did you cheat on him? if so I have to sympathy.
     
  15. Atheist

    Atheist oh, hi OT Supporter

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    I hate it when you post, honestly. You think you're Mr. I know the path to success and post the most useless, impossible to relate to advice ever
     
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    He needs gay porn stat. Also, Atheist, it was sound advice.
     
  17. Daddy O

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    Let me guess - you're 20 years old....:rofl::rofl:

    Simply add me to your Ignore List and you will have solved the problem.

    Now then, that wasn't too hard to figure out, was it? Problem solved, and thanks for once again showing everyone why 20 year olds just don't have the maturity to figure out how to deal with life's little problems.:mamoru:
     
  18. Emfuser

    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Wow, that's two of you now that have proven exactly what he said. :rofl:
     
  19. bowrofl

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    How did I prove that males under 25 are fools who can't handle a serious relationship? If anything...

    what a mature response :hs:. You must be wise beyond your years :rofl:

    Get off your high horses
     
  20. ItsStockOfficer

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    This thread is so juvenile I want to ban the OP.
     
  21. Atheist

    Atheist oh, hi OT Supporter

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    It's the internet -- telling someone you will never meet that you think their advice is worthless to the people who read it is not a deficiency in problem solving.
     
  22. Daddy O

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    Now then, and back on topic.....other than wanting to stir the pot, do you have any better advice for the OP?
     
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    maybe you shouldnt have cheated on him, like you did with me
     
  24. quakefiend420

    quakefiend420 If you can read this, you're too close

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    do I detect the beginning of some ot drama? :noes:
     
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    If he truly is your best friend you would not be having this conversation...or the level of your friendship is not as deep as you thought It was. The reason he won't talk to you is because he's listing his options and you are some place on the bottom on the list.

    He will call you when he gets horny is his plan B falls through.

    So what did you do that was so HORRIBLE any way.

    PaRrIs
     

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