I think I just found my problem.

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    It is that I centralize myself way too much on a bunch of words and specific commentaries. When the moment arrives, and it doesn't happen like I predicted it, then I give up. I plan too much, and when it doesn't happen that way, or something else happens, I am at a loss of words.

    My solution is that I have to be dynamic. To put it simply, you can't go to talk to a girl with a single set of words, because the situationhappens at every moment. You gotta be dynamic. Do not plan, or think anything. Just improvise.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Your problem is that you don't even make a move and lack confidence. We covered this in your other three threads about the same thing man.
     
  3. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    I was joking on the other thread. Confidence I have. I can talk to women. I am a social person. It's just the moment I like somebody, that the situation changes.
     
  4. NCS

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    be desireless
     
  5. Jaff

    Jaff New Member

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    Maybe be more indifferent about the outcome. OK, you're interested in her, get to know her more and see if you're more interested. If it doesn't work out (either you blow it or she's a mess), meh, no biggie, you'll be interested in someone else next time. Focus on the skill instead of the girl.
     
  6. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    :hsugh:
     
  7. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    your real problem is you are an over analyzing keyboard jockey.
     
  8. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Always been. :o

    How do I cure this shit? :mad:
     
  9. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    get you some Omega-3s
     
  10. jones21

    jones21 Uranium Member

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    girls don't like creepy guys like you. thats your problem
     
  11. Slick

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    your problem is saying that your trying to be dynamic
     
  12. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    What is that.
     

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