I think i have a problem v. about women

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  1. chargerzx

    chargerzx New Member

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    ot,
    i wanted to post this in ON because i need a straight answer

    I am a junior in highschool and i met new girls all the time but,
    it seems once i start getting to close to a relationship to a girl im atracted to i make and excuse and bail out or i do something stupid to get out of it.
    For example, a girl i had a class with last year. we flirted for the first semester off and on, then around christmas break we hooked up and when she asked if this was going to be serious i said "no" even though i was still atracted to her.

    in another ocasion i ditched a girl i knew and liked very well for a girl a i hardly knew and only thought was cute.


    to me it seems like
    i want it when its not mine, but i throw it away when i can have it

    is this just me scared of a relationship or
    is this me being childish
     
  2. Rich

    Rich New Member

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    I think it's a childish thing. You don't want something unless it's not yours.
     
  3. chargerzx

    chargerzx New Member

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    can i grow out of something like this?
     
  4. bwell

    bwell New Member

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    sure you can
     
  5. thisisforever

    thisisforever OT Supporter

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    Yeah, just give it some time, and you should be good.
     
  6. BeHeadR

    BeHeadR Only Slightly Insane

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    You have intimacy issues.
     
  7. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    you're young and a lot of young people do this :dunno:

    I think it's something you'll grow out of and as you get older you'll start to realize what you want in terms of a relationship...realistic things
     

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