I really don't enjoy having sex with her anymore and when we do I usually think of someone else the whole time. The thing is though, I really do love her and I would never want to hurt her. I don't want to break up with her, well maybe I do. Who knows, I'm confused. Well anyways I don't know what i'm going through and I'm just totally confused and don't know what to do. Any advice? we're both in our early 20's btw.