Maybe I need a psychiatrist. I am very particular and delicate (from what my friends tell me). I'm also old-fashioned. I'm a germaphobe and I wish I wasn't like that but that's just the way it is. You guys are probably thinking why is this in the Vag forum. Well, here's my story. I once dated this girl who was very desirable. I don't get involved with girls who aren't virgins. She told me she was raped so I made an exception. I later found out she was lying so that was that. We were together only a couple months. She had one previous sexual partner and they were together for almost three years. My friends were dumbfounded and asked why I broke up with her. They told me all girls lie and this and that. Times have changed, etc. They said I need to play the field and know what's out there. But see, I don't date girls just to date them. I only waste my time on those who I can picture myself settling down with one day. My friends just want to bone them. I'm picky and celibate. I'm looking for a girl who is a virgin and has morals. Someone who is religious and has nice family values. But see, I'm also very particular when it comes to looks. When I broke up with the girl I mentioned above, she inflicted a wound on herself. She carved my initial on her arm. She said she never did anything like that before. She also said I don't know how to be a BF. And that if she couldn't be with me, she'd stay single forever. Keep in mind I was only with her for a couple months. She was recovering from a 2 1/2 yr. relationship with her ex. She forgot about him with the quickness, then dated me a few months after their breakup. Now, I broke up with her a year and a half ago and to this date, she is still single. Her comment about how I don't know how to be a BF yet still pushed her into cutting herself has led me to believe that maybe I do need a psychiatrist. Maybe I'm the problem.