i talked to my gf about sex...

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  1. g230sport

    g230sport New Member

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    and she didnt like it at al.
    she said that im trying to pressure her into it by bringing it up, and wanted to admit to other things, so i admitted wanting to have sex, and that just set her off. then later like an hour or 2 later, i brought up that when i was first hanging out with one of my friends at the skatepark, all he would talk about is sex, and i told her how annoying that was to me. but apparently, i brought that up to make her do it, which i did not. we fight constantly, argue all the time, this relationship really sucks, and its been awesome for 10 months now, but now im realising that its not good like it should be. please help ot, what do i do.

    ps. i have convinced myself that im going to break up with her next time we fight, or something related.
     
  2. Kalypso

    Kalypso New Member

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    You have not given us any useable information.

    1) How old are you. If pre-college, just break up with her, the relationship is an obvious failure

    2) Is there any religious tie-ins?
     
  3. MattThom01

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    you're not getting what you guys fight and argue all the time...so why would you wait to break up? You don't need to have a fight as an excuse, you already have your reasons. Call her up, tell her you need to talk in person, go meet smewhere public and end it.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well she's made it clear she doesn't want to have sex and thinks you are pressuring her into this. You want sex, and if you really want it and can't get it from her and it's only going to make you fight more and break up your relationship....I think you know what to do. I don't fault her for holding her ground and being able to call you out when bringing up sex too much with her, but at the same time you have needs and if they're not going to be fulfilled you are only going to become more miserable and possibly seek sex from some other girl.

    Your relationship is dwindling. You're probably young as well, so I don't see why you should stay with her unless you are willing to fight for the relationship. But it sounds like you're over it.
     
  5. Yail Bloor

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    its a fucked up day and age where he has to "admit to" wanting to have sex

    what is this pussyfied bullshit?

    sex is normal, sex is healthy

    its the main reason men and women get together in the first place!
     
  6. ///M Pilot

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    You've gotta be like...what, 15/16?

    Break up with her and go get laid. It's not that tough to do in high school.
     
  7. g230sport

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    im 17. im not presuring her. which was more mature? me to talk to her about it, or making moves which in turn leads to me physically preassuring her? i say talking. i know she wants to wait, but im at that age where my body and shit is changing. im not going to break up with her because of the sex
    i havent in the 10 months we have been dating. we fight over the smallest things. and im tired of fighting constantly. am i wrong with this whole thing? i think not
     
  8. arseclown

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    lol 17 yr old... 10 month relationship... dump her and get another ho bag. you're too young for that shit she spews out of her mouth. virginity isn't some precious thing, it's made up. you're young, find other fun girls to make your youth worth remembering.
     
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    this is so gay. shes on a silent sstrike...:wtf:

    sorry to say. its over soon. i know it.

    i wish i didnt buy her that shit for 280$ on her birthday now... fuckkkk meeeeeeeee
     
  10. Now's your chance to get out easy, do it while you can free of problems and text messages. :rofl:
     
  11. Kev07

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    crikeys 10 months and still no putting out? :ugh:

    and then $280 birthday gift? :noes:

    get the fuck outa that shit now!
     
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    you both virgins, or just her?
     
  13. ///M Pilot

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    seems your decision has been made for you
    :)

    just cut your losses and find someone new
     
  14. bigred133

    bigred133 I has an AV!

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    get out

    find someone new

    and next time DON'T TALK ABOUT IT, JUST TURN HER ON.
     
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    sounds like my last relationship.. went out with a chick for 1 year... she was a virgin, everytime i brought it up she'd get pissed.. i dumped her and now shes a slut has sex with random guys.. my advice if u can take there pants off then u can have sex with them. Every girl ive had sex with, if you go to take thier pants off and their like wtf? then u aint having sex, but if you do get um off your home feel!
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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  18. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Not soon. NOW. Tell her to hit the road and give you your shit back that you bought her :eek3:
     
  19. Justin636

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    Sounds like its time to end the relationship. Your young and most of the time relationships at a young age go no where anyways. Enjoy being single.
     
  20. g230sport

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    im not trying to presure her, i knew that she wanted to wait, but we were talking about sexual things before, and that made me think she was opening up, and we she might have been interested, so i brought i up. shit happens.
    im going to buy her some flowers tommorow morning, and stop by her house and give them to her adn tell her im sorry. i really am, i just was thinking with my dick instead of my head...if she doesnt do anything after that, then i know its over, and i have tried. im REALLY into her. but i just want things to go back to normal now :(
     
  21. MattThom01

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    why do you need flowers to apologize? The apology itself should be enough. She's either going to accept your apology or not...the flowers would just be a waste of money.

    You can't buy he stuff every time you fight just to make up.
     
  22. autobahn

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    it's her decision if she's not ready for intercourse. however if she's not willing to do anything else, it's probably a sign you're on different levels and you need to end the relationship.

    there's no sense prolonging it... you're ready to have a little fun and she's not. that's just the way it is at your age.
     

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