My life is pretty much awesome. Let's put the e-persona aside for a bit (but don't tell the main forum, mmmkay?) so we can analyze the situation. I have my own place, a fun truck, a great job, plenty of money to get by on though I'm by no means rich, and a few good friends. I have hobbies too, so I'm pretty much never lacking for something to do when I want to do something. I'm getting the normal pressures - older motherly women in my life, instinct, and the like are pushing me to grab a woman. I do want to have kids, when the situation is right, and I can't think of many down sides to having the perfect woman in my life. The problem is that I don't think I know any women that would be perfect for me. I think that the crux of the matter is that I'd need to find a woman that fit in with my life an only made it better (and of course I expect I'd have to deliver the same for her). I'm not really looking for a quick and easy answer here. This is more an invitation for general discussion. Any takers?