so i turn to you and ask for advice in this situation... i just got out of a 2 year relationship in march which doesnt really matter im over her anyways... so the whole time im with my ex my ex before her call her "kaitlyn" is going out with someone. i get a random IM from her a week or 2 ago at like 4am when i just got home from goin out. she asks to hang out and we do and smoke some weed at my place for like an hour or so and talk. she tells me her and her bf broke up and after a while it was like 7am and she went home. should i have made a move? i chill with her a 2nd time but with one of her friends. then i chill with her a third time at my house and we start to watch a movie but we're just talking and shit not really like all over each other. should i have made a move then? i cant tell if she wants to be friends or wants more... how do i tell? should i ask? is it gonna make it weird if i ask?