I really can't do this casual sex thing...

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  1. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    It really is just has way too many risks and I just don't know how you guys put up with drama that ensues from it. I am catching a ton right now while the girl is acting like everything is fine. She sends me texts asking me to come sleep with her when I really don't care.

    Not only that but sex with a girl you really care for is a million times better.

    Arg Im fucked..
     
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    True. But some sex is better than no sex...
     
  3. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Not when it is with your boss.
     
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    Drama? What do you mean? Explain.
     
  5. RebootEnzo

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    I mean thats exactly what I thought. I was like well I have not got laid in quite some time. Let me throw out all morals and think with my dick for one second. Quite the mistake it was.
     
  6. Eddie Brock

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    :eek3: Thats where the phrase "Dont shit where you eat" comes into effect.

    But now that its said and done, and it seems like you dont want to continue this, be as upfront and "professional" as possible. Let her know youre not feeling the FWB thing.
     
  7. RebootEnzo

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    Slept with boss who had a boyfriend who is my friend and who I work with. I said this to her. "This is not right you break up with him but remember I don't want a relationship with you"

    She breaks up and now I get this stare like I am going to get punched in the face from ex.

    She texts me all the time to come over but I really don't care.
     
  8. Eddie Brock

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    wow! you werent kidding when you said you wanted to throw morals out of the window and think with your dick huh? Just lay it flat... let her know that this isnt something you want to continue, but you would still like to keep things in the workplace as they were before you guys had sex. Thats the easy part, actually getting her to or rcvng it is the hard part. Good Luck with it all
     
  9. vodkacollins

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    then end it. if its not for you, then just dont do it. the drama doesnt seem worth it
     
  10. formul8

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    Run.

    Well, at least fuck her one more time and then run.
     
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    boss gonna fire you lulz
     
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    i was always told this: Don't dip your pen in company ink...
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You're doing it wrong.
     
  14. XaPU!M

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    :rofl: of course you are going to be in the middle of drama WHEN YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF IT.

    Casual sex is one thing. Fucking your boss while working with her boyfriend/your friend is just a retarded situation to be in. Sounds like something from TV.
     
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    Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
     
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    Me neither. So what? Do what's right for you.
     
  17. JordanClarkson

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    it's reasonable for her to assume that you're going to keep sleeping with her because she is the boss. if this is a good job then i don't see anything wrong with it. it's part of the corporate world imo. however if it's a target then that's pretty fucked up because she'd be taking advantage of someone who has no other options. either quit, threaten a lawsuit, or keep fucking her.
     
  18. Falconer

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    blackmail her that you'll tell HER boss that she forced you to have sex unless she gives you a HUGE raise.



    oh wait, that's what a chick would do. Nevermind.

    FUck that, I would NEVER sleep with a female subordinate for that very reason.
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, casual sex isn't always drama-filled, in fact it can be fucking awesome if you aren't stupid about who you sleep with. Your situation is drama-filled because the stupid bitch is your boss AND your friend's girlfriend (or now ex girlfriend as of hours maybe days ago?).

    You need to drop her from your life and find a new job, that's for sure.
     
  20. MattThom01

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    I realize I generally try to be nice and civil and respectful...

    But holy fuck man, that was stupid!

    And I like how you gave her the "this isn't right" speech AFTER you slept with her.

    You're either going to have to tough it out until they get over it, or find a new job.

    You just DO NOT sleep with your boss if the job is anything worth keeping...it's a huge conflict of interest.
     

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