I rarely analyze anything anymore, but...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by coughlin's law, Jul 21, 2009.

  1. I met up with a friend who I've hung out with the past couple of months, I have a GF and she's single, but it's only hanging out -- we go to bars and catch up.

    But one thing stuck in my mind from Saturday night, was when she was about to head home, she comes over, gives me a hug, a kiss on the cheek and says "Love you lots" and then left.

    I don't have many female friends that do this... so I was wondering if it meant anything :dunno:
     
  2. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Not necessarily. Could just mean that she loves you as a friend! Do you have any other sign that might mean she is interested in you? If not I'd let this one go!
     
  3. I'm not too sure, what are some things to look for?
     
  4. ChipOnShoulder

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    Means abso-fucking-lutely nothing. Plenty of my female friends do this. Maybe they are more sensual, maybe they have no idea what that word means. Either way, it's not a signal for anything.

    Of course, my GF from Asia didn't buy it. Had to let that clingy girl go...

    Body language and verbal hints.
     
  5. I'm kind of a natural asshole, but to this girl I act like the nice guy... I don't know why I do it.
     
  6. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Do you like her? Do you want her to like you more than a friend?
     
  7. Yeah but I don't know why... I want to hang out with her, but haven't thought of a reason why I want to hang around her so much :dunno:
     
  8. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Are you sexually attracted to her? Is she single?

    Well, even if she doesn't like you, It does not seem like that much of an innocent friendship. I think you know what you feel and want, I don't believe the" :dunno:" face you make.
     
  9. She is single, I wouldn't say I'm entirely sexually attracted to her... she does have a nice body
     
  10. pollux

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    it seems to me that you are attracted to her. look at your previous post, it's contradictory. contradictory because you don't want to admit your attraction because she's just a friend and you have a GF, but you've obviously checked her out. most guys would probably shrug off a small physical gesture on her part but your feelings for her have led you to project more into her actions. you have to rethink your relationships with everyone now, or else people may get hurt
     
  11. saosko

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    Butterface?

    but foreally, I have a few female friends that are like this. Don't over analyze.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You still going out with that same girl?
     
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    Your memory is ridiculous, I love it.
     
  14. Falconer

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    I hate that shit.

    I don't say "love" unless I mean it and I wish other people were the same way.

    Dropping it casually cheapens it.


    Cliffs - it means she's a huge flirt and likes the attention you're giving her.

    Why are you doing 1-on-1 dates with a chick when you're in a relationship?
     
  15. knucks

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    Some girls are just like that.
    I was out at the bar with a girl I'm seeing and this girl I went on a few dates with and am just friends with now was there. She did her usual brush my hair, touched me on the cheek when she was saying hello.
    The girl I was with was not 100% okay with that :dunno:
     
  16. THoC

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    i do it all the time w. my friends. both male and female (i especially love doing it w. my male friends bc it makes them uncomfortable).

    there's a difference though. i tell my SO "i love you". i tell me friends "love you/ya".

    ive never had my SO question why i do it.
     
  17. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I tell some of my friends I love them when it is appropriate. I do not, however, go on dates with girls I'm attracted to when I'm in a relationship. :hsugh:
     
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    are you kidding me
     
  19. knucks

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    "love you lots" just sounds like something a friend would say to a friend
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: I just know he was MCohen before MCohen came around here. I'm wondering if he had the decency to leave his girlfriend he was screwing over.
     
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    it didnt mean anything and you are looking to much into it
     
  22. Why are some people saying it's a date?
     
  23. ChipOnShoulder

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    because those "some people" have no idea as to the specifics of your relationship with said girl

    ...

    Are you listening/reading any of the responses? :rofl:
     
  24. I wouldn't consider it a date really, just a meetup with a friend... :dunno:

    Didn't think going to a bar with a girl meant anything more than that
     
  25. Falconer

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    So you only go on dates with ugly chicks when you're in a relationship? :mamoru:
     
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