I never thought I'd be having this problem...

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  1. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    so my girlfriend and I tried having sex for the first time tonight. However, we ran into a few difficulties. Turns out that I am too big for her... What can we do about this problem? I can barely fit my middle and ring fingers inside of her at the same time. How can this situation be remedied?
     
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    How experienced are you? Like, do we need to tell you that she should relax and literally "loosen up" - or are you advanced enough so we can skip that whole thing?
     
  3. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    More foreplay. She needs to relax and loosen up more. Spend more time getting her in the mood and go slow at first. She was probably just nervous and over-thinking it.
     
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    Use your fingers to loosen her up and foreplay. I'm really not sure what else you can do... lube perhaps?
     
  5. antihero

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    go down on her. an O will make the fitment easier.

    Be very very gentle. if you force the issue enough to hurt her she will tense up more now and in the future. Even if she is trying to be a tough girl about it
     
  6. Justin636

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    :werd: relaxing is key.
     
  7. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    We had a good hour and a half of foreplay... maybe we were just nervous? It was my first time :o and her second time, so we could just be really inexperienced
     
  8. Falconer

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    That's probably it. Just take things slowly. And don't make her feel pressured or she'll have even more difficulty relaxing.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Seriously, we can sticky this type of thread and title it:
    "COMMON QUESTIONS VIRGINS ASK"
     
  10. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    She wasn't really pressured, she wanted me to do it, and I was reluctant at first but went on with it in the end. Maybe it's first time butterflies
     
  11. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    We could sticky half the threads on the front page as commonly asked questions, honestly. I think what would be best would be a "hall of fame" repository for the best threads on certain topics. Where you can't make new threads, only reply to existing ones.
     
  12. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    She's not turned on and relaxed.
     
  13. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    lets just stickey every question that is asked more than two times and make this forum even more of a PUA circlejerk than it already is :rolleyes:
     
  14. fixthe fernback

    fixthe fernback New Member

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    I guess she wasn't, because she was fine tonight :bigthumb: I got her to squirt with my fingers... that got her relaxed and turned on in a hurry. Thanks for the advice guys. Guess I needed more wise foreplay. I finally get to say goodbye to my V-Card :bowdown:
     
  15. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    less talk, more pics of av
     
  16. BradUF

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    Yeah but jumping to the conclusion of "Im to big for her" is much easier to accept.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah. I just get so tired of seeing the same exact problems in here all the time.
     
  18. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    That is what happens when you are here too long.
     
  19. ms500

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    I guess she just has a small vagina :dunno:
     
  20. antihero

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    now never say that again.
     
  21. Pringles

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    sounds like she has the v card or your naturally really big or shes small. Either way you need to loosen it up. It's a muscle and with exercise and pain and regrowth it will change. Basically you need her to be really wet and horny aka lots of foreplay. Then your gonna have to build her up with fingers or she can sack up and take your dong. Now be careful because you can tear her so if your shit is huge be nice. If not, then go for it and break her in so to speak.

    My ex used to walk around the next day complaining it hurt to walk and shit. I'm a rather big man myself and she wasn't the loosest of vagina's either. From the male perspective I find it nice to hear, but maybe im a sicko.
     
  22. antihero

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    :uh:
    I can't be the only one, can I?
     
  23. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    what, v-card?
     
  24. Kalypso

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    Oh, v-card is virgin....

    Why would you abbreviate something that's just as long as what you're trying to abbreviate...? /shrug
     
  25. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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