We've been dating for a little over a year. When I met her she was a little wild but nothing out of the ordinary for a girl in her early 20's. Well fast forward one year, she has a huge drinking problem. If i think back a few weeks, the longest she's been sober is probably 2 days. Last week she drank at her girlfriends house until 3 in the morning, when she woke up at 10am she was still drunk and decided to pound 6 beers and then fell asleep around 1pm. I've tried talking with her about it but there's no use, she has a lot of issues currently with her family and she has a lot of built up anger with her Dad and how he basically abandoned her after her parents divorced, my guess is that she feels she has to drink those thoughts away. She has also started to mix pills (Vicodin, Adderall, Xanex etc.) with drinking and it's getting out of control. I just recently graduated college, I'm a huge health nut and into fitness and bodybuilding, I drink maybe once a week at most with some friends and she is making my life miserable, we have absolutely nothing in common anymore. I always have to worry about her when she drinks with her girlfriends, I'm always picking her up and she can barely walk, she's always asking me what happened the night before because she blacked out, I spend so much time and effort trying to help her, I haven't had a good nights sleep for weeks. I really want to leave her but I'm having a hard time doing it. I feel like I need to help her and I feel like she needs me. We had a good relationship until the past 2 or 3 months but now its just draining me. Any advice on how to end it and move on? I appreciate it.