i need suggestions about my situation.

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  1. operationrob

    operationrob OT Supporter

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    so, i was dating this girl since november, and about a week before our 8 months she cheated on me and we broke up. then i went on vacation and she is now kind of seeing another guy. i still like her a lot, we have been best friends for 5 years and decided to date last year. idk if i should try to continue things with her or not, because she is kinda a huge bitch to me. tonight she promised that if she didnt go out with her friend that we would hang out, well, she didnt go out with her and she went out with the guy she is kind of seeing because i was already out. i think she could've atleast called me or something. any suggestions?
     
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    and i think this quote might work for it... Dont make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
     
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    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Quote works perfectly, she is using you as a backup, which is obviously not what you want to be. Move on imo.
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Her mosa? ITS MY MOSA!!!
    Good quote :bigthumb: I have actually never heard that before. You only want what you can't have, move on...
     
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    sounds like your typical immature highschool girl.

    move on.
     
  6. operationrob

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    yeah, she is ridiculous. idk, there is something about her though. i'm most likely just going to try to be a home wrecker and get her to end up with me again. shes a huge makeout whore so it'll work.
     
  7. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    I got to the part where i read "she cheated on me and we broke up"

    Thats all the info one needs... stay broke up.
     
  8. trm3

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    I was (just ended it recently) in the same situation. I dunno why why I was soo attracted to the girl but in end what was the point if she was not going to give you the full attention you deserve. Stop being second place for someone....move on. I know its hard, especially when you miss the physical shit, I know I do, but dont you want to be with someone who wants it as much as you do? You deserve that!

    I told her I was tired of being second all the time in her life (for alomst 3 years <----GAWD Im so stupid!!! The power of the P) and I need to move on with out her.

    Shes being very selfish and only wants you when she is bored, sucks but thats how it is. Trust me it only gets better when you leave her, time heals ;)!!

    "Dont make someone a priority who only makes you an option" --My favorite quote!

    Good luck!
     
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    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    new pussy new face = over it all.
     
  10. operationrob

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    she has already kind of found someone else and i guess it just kinda pisses me off? i really cant believe she is pulling 1/2 the shit that she is.
     
  11. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    leave her in the dust.
     
  12. operationrob

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    i'm going out with her in a bit. lets see how this goes. :noes:
     
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    you :moon::whip: her
     
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    Fase Your Face, In A Pickle Jar.

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    Dude you're her little bitch and you don't even care. Don't get emotionaly involved, fuck her, if you can't, forget about her for good.
     
  15. operationrob

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    hung out with her tonight. it went decently well. the guy that she is seeing right now cant even figure out how to hook up a DVD player :mamoru: but i guess he is smart book wise? she kept being flirty, such as trying on bras and then showing them to me asking if they fit/saying random things like she always used to. hmmmmm:x:
     
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    DO NOT get caught up in her trickery. Seriously, at the time it may seem like she wants you or sets you as #1 on her priority list. In reality, she really just wants to stay on your good side and she knows that her body gives her that power over you.

    Believe me, I'm in a very similar situation, you need to cut that shit pronto.

    It's just a viscious cycle you do not want to get trapped into man.

    Jeff
     
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    it's kinda hard considering we've been friends for 5+ years and then decided to date.
     
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    JAFAR FPS whore OT Supporter

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    I know...I was currently in that SAME situation. I've known her for 6 years before we started to date. We were (are) best friends. But the same shit will keep happening until you show her you don't want to be stepped on.

    $50 says she doesn't respect you right now. You can say something you want, ie. "I could use a glass of water" and she will turn a deaf ear because of it. Yet if she says the same thing, she expects you to get your ass up and get it for her.

    Mine gets jealous as Fvck when I talk to other women or hang out with them, but then its okay for her to hang out with guys and she expects me to be cool with it. See anything wrong here? :whip: Thats why I got out of my situation STAT!

    I'm not saying that's the situation you're in right now, but don't let it get to that! Screw that mang! Until you stop what normally happens, she isnt going to stop treating you that way. There are 1,000 other women who would love to date you.

    Women don't have guy friends, except the ones they are getting something from (emotionally, sexually, monetarily) or one's they haven't slept with yet.

    Take my advice with a grain of salt though, as you should with all advice.

    Jeff
     
  19. operationrob

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    she was actually fine last night. i was making a mess with my sammich (some dressing or something was dripping everywhere) and when she got up to get a straw she was like "here's some napkins" :o
     
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    She's not even worth keeping around as just a friend. Let the stupid bitch whore around all she wants.
     
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    JAFAR FPS whore OT Supporter

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    I know man, its your life so I know you're going to do what you want to do. If you're happy, then stay. Best of luck to you.

    Just remember that only you can get yourself out of shitty situations.
     
  22. operationrob

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    yeah, it's a bitch working this all out.
     
  23. trm3

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    Dude follow your orginal quote!!!

    "Dont make someone a priority who only makes you an option"

    I finally got out of mine!!!! It feels great!!! Shes just using you, i know it sucks but its true. Women are the devils kids (some of them) and they know it!!

    The only way you will listen if something really bad happnes.
     
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    Mikey This one, this form I hold now, so Wide eyed and h

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    look she cheated, why the fuck mess with her again :slap:
     
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    Dating your best friend can suck... :(

    Especially when she breaks your heart, but you still love her so you still want to be with her and put up with more shit than you ever should...

    I'm glad to know I'm not the only pathetic loser in this dumbass situation though.
     

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