LGBT I need some queer etiqute....

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  1. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    I can't stand living at home anymore, would it be proper for me to ask my b/f if I could move in with him or would it only be okay to have him ask me?! :noes:
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I mean, you can ask....but wouldn't that be kinda lesbianic? :o
     
  3. Ivy Mike

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    Is your situation (financial, time) good enough to permit your moving out on your own? How long until you could do so?

    You could go for a ride with your BF and ask him to stop at a convienience store or grocery store. Tell him you want to pick up an apartment guide (or similar)
    Maybe he'll offer.

    If he doesn't, I'd just work like hell to move out or deal with it until you are in a better position to move. It would suck to move and then not be able to support yourself and have to go home.

    not that I know your situation, but it would really suck to go back to something you hated.
     
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    Eh I love lesbians so its all good! :wiggle:
     
  5. RyRy

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    Yeah financially its not an issue, its just me spending 12-1500 a month on housing, food, utilities, etc. vs. nothing while living at home.

    I would love to take my b/f for a ride :naughty: oh wait you meant in the truck :mamoru: He owns his own house so unless I can talk him into buying a nicer and newer one no shopping required.

    I think I'm going to talk to him tonight :x: :noes:
     
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    We don't do that. :o
     
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    wait weren't you going to dump him 5 seconds ago?
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    :mamoru:
     
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    I've never done it. :hsugh:
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    I trust you honey. You're a very rare lesbian. :bigthumb:
     
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    We've worked almost everything out. :cuddle:
     
  12. Notorious R.I.E.

    Notorious R.I.E. Queen Bee

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    same here... i mean sure i own a house now with my g/f but it was after 3 years of dating... not a second date hey let's move in together kinda thing... if one of us had done that the other would have ran... :)
     
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    Well, it does cost money to live on your own. If you have the finances, I'd do it. Such a great feeling to be out on your own, making your own way.

    The idea of picking up an apt guide while he is around is to put the idea in his head that you want to move out. Just plant the seed if you will. He may offer, but if he doesn't, you are going to need a place to live...unless you just want to stay at home.

    Hope all goes well.:bigthumb:
     
  14. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...okay. You're the exception. :kiss:

    EDIT- and Notorious RIE
     

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