I need serious help with one girl I REALLY like..

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  1. Ramon

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    Okay so here's the little wannabe timeline. I'm 24, she is 23. Both work and go to school...
    • We meet in chat room on a Sunday night
    • We talk that same night for an hour
    • We talk every single day for an hour during the first week
    • She tells me she likes me on Wednesday
    • We click right away and give each other pet names
    • She even kissed me over the phone
    • We plan on meeting the next Sunday
    • On Saturday she goes to a concert and tells me she is going to buy me a shirt.
    • Sunday comes, I call her and no answer
    • She stood me up. Excuse was that her friend needed her really bad.
    • Next day online she apologized
    • I feel she avoided me because she forgot about the shirt.
    • We don't talk as much until Wednesday. We talk for an hour.
    • Since then we hardly talk.
    • Once in a while we invite each other to clubs to meet up but it hasn't happened.
    • Called her a week later on a Tuesday night and she didn't answer or call me back.
    • Talked to her Friday online and she told me she has been busy doing homework.
    • Finally talked to her today online and she was a little busy but was still was affectionate and called me a pet name "sweets" and left kissy smiley faces.
    I need to know what to do with this girl. I really like her and I want to know how not to lose her. I hope she hasn't lost interest. I want to call her maybe Tuesday and invite her to the beach for the weekend. I really don't want to lose touch with this one, so I really need help. :hs:
     
  2. Muffin Man

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    uhhhhhhhh first should maybe be meeting her before you think you REALLY LIKE HER.
     
  3. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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  4. Chipwich

    Chipwich Porno Mustache

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    She doesn't like you, plain and simple. Even blind freddy could see that.
     
  5. Ramon

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    Seemed the first week she really liked me, not sure what happened.
     
  6. bigmick

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    bigmick The plane takes off OT Supporter

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    Probably expected you to propose and got cut when you didn't.
     
  8. Ramon

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    Yeah I expect really serious answers here, so don't troll in here.
     
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    bigmick The plane takes off OT Supporter

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    You are one to talk. Every post of yours is a troll.
     
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    she probably came to see you, saw how ugly you were in real life and decided to not come over and went home instead.
     
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    Chances are she's a fatty or you are.
     
  13. bandwagon

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    Serious answer: GET OUT MORE.
     
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  15. Ramon

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    I do I also meet them at clubs.
     
  16. Ramon

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    Hmm you could be right. I remember when I was talking to her on the phone. She was like "grr...this guy is calling me I'm not gonna answer. He's always calling me, we when out for a bit and I don't like hime anymore". I think I've become that guy. :wtc:
     
  17. percent

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    It sounds to me like you are plan b.

    At least, that situation sounds like what i have done with plan b girls and had a few girls do to me. She doesn't mind you, but has someone better at the moment. If her real date falls through, she might show up.

    When I feel like a girl is doing it to me, I play along, but don't get emotionally attached. Realize she's not that interested and put it on the side burner. If you happen to meet up sometime, have some fun while you can. If she blows you off once, she'll most likely blow you off again.
     
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    Pet names and kisses over the phone? :ugh: 24 years old? :ugh:

    Seriously though, she's done with you and is making it obvious.
     
  19. Ramon

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    Alright yeah I think I'm going to give up. I text her twice today and she did not reply. Sucks. I might call her one last time on Thursday, if she doesn't answer or reply. Will delete the voicemails and messages I saved. Erase her number and the screen name where I met her from.
     
  20. Kinks

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    she chickened out of meeting you and then lost interest. move on, desperado.
     
  21. PocoDiablo

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    Stop stalking her. This is part of your problem. You are acting desperate. Call her or text her ONCE and wait for her to reply. I mean WTF, like the third time she gets a message she'll be like "Oh, I am SO glad he texted me twice AND called me so I would't forget about him!"
     
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    Stop stalking her. This is part of your problem. You are acting desperate. Call her or text her ONCE and wait for her to reply. I mean WTF, like the third time she gets a message she'll be like "Oh, I am SO glad he texted me twice AND called me so I would't forget about him!"

    Second time
     
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    Stop stalking her. This is part of your problem. You are acting desperate. Call her or text her ONCE and wait for her to reply. I mean WTF, like the third time she gets a message she'll be like "Oh, I am SO glad he texted me twice AND called me so I would't forget about him!"

    Third time.

    Get's annoying, doesn't it? Like you didn't see it the first time?
     
  24. Muffin Man

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    there are lots of other whores in the sea
     
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    Dude youve never even seen this girl face to face, and you sound horribly needy. Just be natural and if it works out then ok if not then move on.
     

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