I need help reading this girl.

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  1. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Let me start by saying she is the most beautiful girl I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.

    Basically one of my friends picked her and her friend out of the crowd to come to our VIP section at a club. While three friends got her number, I just asked her for her cell and put my number in there and told her to call me if she wanted to marry me ( I know its corny, but thats how it came out when i was drunk). . Outside the club I bought her a flower, but she would not give me a kiss for it. Just a hug. After the club we all (my 6 male 2 female friends) were supposed to meet with the two girls we had just met. Im the one she talked to for like an hr trying to get to the place (long story, she got lost) She tells me she'll call me next day.


    The next day I talk to her and tells me my other friend had not called her yet like he was supposed to. And that she hated when people did that. We texted a few times but didnt really talk for the next 3 days. Well, she just called me and asked me if WE (as in my and my friends) were going out again this weekend so she can come meet us.


    So what do u think?
     
  2. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    not enough info
    see how it goes if yall go out again
     
  3. Coco Monkey

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    i think you should wait and see.
     
  4. Ninjarider

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    I think she's into your friend. Sorry dude.
     
  5. MrEous

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    +1...see how she acts if you all meet up with her again.
     
  6. lusteeluva

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    She wants your friend bigtime.
     
  7. BTA

    BTA New Member

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    Likes your friend

    you screwed yourself with the flower and the corny line

    oh and "Let me start by saying she is the most beautiful girl I have ever had the pleasure of meeting" means you acted like a pussy in front of her so she found your inaccessible friend more attractive.
     
  8. lusteeluva

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    :roflw:
     
  9. dscallaway69

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    yup, you took away all of the challenge in one night. She is still intrigued by your friend. Also why would she be mad that he didn't call if she was talking to you and interested in you. She wants to fuck your friend, get over it and maybe sleep with one of hers
     
  10. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    why would you go for a girl that all your friends are going for as well?
    im inclined to think like everyone else here that she wants your friend.
    however there really isnt enough info to come to that conclusion allready
     
  11. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Yep, Im sure I acted like a pussy. No, I know I did. I just could not help it tho. It was a combination of me being wasted and her being so hot. I had not one ounce of rational judgment in me.

    Maybe she does like my friend. We may all hang out this weekend and see what happens. Oh well, you cant win them all.
     
  12. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Normally I wouldnt. Actually, I never have. But there is just something about her that infatuated me the second I met her. If one of my friends had met her somewhere and brought her to the club. She would be off limits in my mind. But since we all met her at the same time. Well, thats a lil bit different. We'll see what happens. Maybe she is not really as pretty as I think she is. I'll have to chill with her when Im sober to know for sure.
     
  13. dscallaway69

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    yeah hang out one more go around and see how it goes. Who knows we could all be wrong. Good luck with that
     
  14. JaxFlJon

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    time to become the badass of the group otherwise your chances are nill.
     
  15. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I dont think so. I am how I am and im not changing that for a girl. If she does not like me for me, thats fine. Im not in the mood to be playing games. My ex's have told me a 80- 20 mix. 80% sweetheart, 20% asshole. And I think its a pretty acurate description and its all I have to offer to girls. I cant be any sweeter or any more assholish.
     
  16. JaxFlJon

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    just giving my suggestion:dunno:
     
  17. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    My bad. I didnt mean it to come across as an attack. I was just giving my point of view when it comes to acting in order to score. Those days are long gone for me my friend.
     
  18. BTA

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    *shrug* it's something we all do at some point or another.

    just sucks that thats how women see things and go for the guy that wouldnt give her the time of day.
     
  19. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    I'm so sick of hearing this. Would you rather a girl just sucked it up and dated you to make you happy even if she didn't like you?

    If you really believed that you'd use it to your advantage. Guys just make remarks like that because they don't want to come to the realization that the girl they like just isn't attracted to them that way. (Not meaning they don't think they are cute.)

    I've dated assholes and nice guys...girls (just the same as guys) are attracted to whoever they are attracted to. Just because I turn a guy down doesn't mean he's not cute... Just because a guy is cute doesn't mean I'm attracted to him in a way I'd want it to go further either. I'm looking for chemistry, not a one sided relationship.
     
  20. BTA

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    :ugh2:
     
  21. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Well she just called me but I didnt answer. I was hoping she would leave a message or something but she didnt. When should I call her back? I dont wanna make it seem like Im a puppy just waiting for her call. But I also dont wanna wait long enough that she makes plans for this weekend before I get to her.


    Damn this shit is anoying!! I havent felt like this since HS. Im normally so secure I can read girl's vibes. If I only wasnt drunk when I met her I would probably know if she liked me. But my alcohol numbed mind just could not register any fucking readings.
     
  22. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    :rofl:

    Everytime I hear that I cant help but think of this letter. Funny I never really tought about it like that until I read it.


    Dear Nice Guy,

    I understand how upset you were when I broke up with you. Hey, I was disappointed too. I really had high hopes for our relationship. I thought you would be different from the usual assholes. Sure, you were less good looking, less stylish, not as cool as those other guys, but I thought, I can see beyond those surface imperfections to the great personality that supposedly lies beneath. I really tried, and I didn't want to break up with you, but you left me no choice. Then you begged me to tell you why, and I didn't, because I didn't want to be mean. But since I now see you slipping into that lame old excuse, "Women only like assholes who treat them bad, nice guys finish last," I feel compelled to explain exactly why I had to dump you.

    1. You are a terrible kisser. There's really no way to say this in the moment, but your technique is disgusting. Please do not ever try to lick the roof of my mouth, stick your tongue up my nose, or slobber like a dog.

    2. You stink. Yes, I realize your shyness around women makes you very nervous which can cause some incredibly foul sweat, but please, use more deodorant or something. And there is just no excuse for bad breath or a stinky butt. For god's sake, practice basic hygiene.

    3. You have a huge fucking chip on your shoulder. Look, I'm really sorry those bitches in high school wouldn't talk to you. But you're 35, get over it already. You know, I was a loser in high school too, but I don't obsess over it every day. And I don't think it entitles me to whine about how difficult my life has been, and how everyone needs to be more accepting of my issues.

    4. You're boring. And I don't mean that in the "would rather read poetry than go snowboarding" kind of way, because I'm a nerd too. No, I mean you never joke around, you never do silly or spontaneous things, everything with you has to be discussed seriously and at length. Lighten up!

    5. You're creepy. Did you miss some secret boy meeting when you were a kid on how to flirt with girls without coming off like a total sleaze? Don't say, "You may not have noticed, but I've been looking at your body." Believe me, I noticed. You're not that subtle. Also don't say, "I'm going to pay for your dinner so you'll have sex with me." Your candor is not charming, it's repellant. Don't tell me how many times you've jerked off to thoughts of me naked. If you want to do that, go right ahead, but please don't announce it like it was the evening news, it makes you sound like a stalker.

    6. You're shallow. I know you think wanting to be around me every second of every day demonstrates how much you care for me, but as soon as I realized it was because you have no life of your own, it just got annoying. You told me that have no interests or preferences except what I want, and no emotions of your own, except in reaction to me. That is not being intimate, that's just creepy. When I ask what you want for dinner, just say what you want. If you don't know, say "I don't know." But don't look at me with puppy dog eyes and whisper "Whatever you want" every fucking time! Jesus, it's just dinner!

    7. You're a lousy lay. I know, your inexperience because of your nice guy status is to blame, but you could at least be willing to learn. You don't need to ask permission or announce every single move you're about to make. It kills the mood. Don't give me orders like I'm a piece of software you're programming. Jeez, if I wanted to be awkwardly groped and poked, I'd have sex with a 15 year old boy.

    8. You have anger issues. You are so afraid of ever showing the slightest bit of anger that you repress it until you explode in rage at some inappropriate moment, like when I did not respond favorably to your demands for sex. Let me share a secret with you: if you had kept your mouth shut, you would have gotten some. But after you turned red in the face and started yelling at me for not giving it up fast enough, did you really think I would let you fuck me?

    So let's review: you're secretly filled with rage and resentment, and you think you are entitled to sex on demand. That doesn't sound "nice" at all now, does it? Thanks for showing me that so-called "nice guys" are assholes too. If I'm going to be stuck with an angry, demanding asshole, I might as well choose someone who's at least pretty on the outside.

    So long,

    Your Ex-Girlfriend
     
  23. Liddy

    Liddy Not enough cowbell.

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    Why didn't you answer?
     
  24. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Im not sure:hsughno:

    Trying to make myslef interesting by being unavailable?

    edit; You think I should call her back right now?


    another edit; I just called her back. She just wanted to make sure I still had a two dollar lucky bill I promised to give her when I met her ( Dont ask me why I promised that, I have no fucking clue why I did it). She told me she was gonna pick it up on saturday at the club where Im gonna be at.

    One issue just came up tho. I met her at a club, when I talked to her the next day she invited me to another club she was going to. And today when I just talked to her ( 5 days after I met her) she told me she was on her way to a club and she is going to meet me at another club in two days.

    Thats 4 clubs ( that I know of) from saturday to saturday. I think thats a bit much for me, not only do I not like going to clubs as much as I did 2yrs ago when I turned 21. But even if I did like them that much, my work hrs would not allow me to party that much. After all this guessing and shit, it appears to be a lost cause. Aint that something:o
     
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  25. Liddy

    Liddy Not enough cowbell.

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    If you want to talk to her and get to know her better, you should answer her calls.

    Think about how frustrated you get when people don't answer your calls. :)
     

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