I need a woman's opinion

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  1. Crossett

    Crossett New Member

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    Is my GF emailing a guy she dated ~7 years ago and talking about going to Houston (from Austin) to see him a bad sign? Granted her main reason for going is to see a friend of hers who just had a baby, but still.

    Her friends are roughly 95% guys and this is her excuse, but it just doesn't settle well with me.
     
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  2. JimDab

    JimDab The holiest lurker.

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    i don't let my girlfriends talk to their ex-boyfriends because old feelings could always be lying there.

    i'd say you have a 20/80 chance that she wants to cheat on you.

    i'd also say that there is a 99.69/0.31 chance that her ex-boyfriend means for her to cheat on you. keep that in mind
     
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    You can't stop her from seeing her friend that had the baby. You have to trust her ortherwise maybe you should think about why you are together.
     
  4. laracroft

    laracroft teh croft

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    Is this guy someone that she briefly dated and they ended up deciding to be just friends, or is this guy someone she had a relationship with?
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    Seven years is a long time ago, just something to consider. I'd have to be in your shoes to fathom what to do.
     
  6. Incog91

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    Go with her.
     
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    12345678 EH?

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    i bet you're a real hit with the ladies
     
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    If you are serious this may be one of the dumbest things i have heard to date. If you think that she may end up having feelings for someone else while you are together even an ex then you should not be with them. there is a reason these people are ex's not to mention if she wants to cheat it is not neccesarily going to be with an ex.
     
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    Dos Equis4 nebraska democrat (oxymoron?)

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    HaremScarem So you think that you're an angel, well then the d

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    :ugh: excuse me? you don't let them?

    :rofl: i'm in too good of a mood to :rant2:, so consider yourself lucky.
     
  12. Odds are that she is going there to screw him--

    She might not plan on it but that's what will eventually wind up happening if she gos to unite with her long lost love I mean friend.

    Woman trait 119: "Oh he's just a friend...."
     
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    JimDab The holiest lurker.

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    sorry, i didnt mean to sound the way i sounded, a better way to have said what i meant to say would have been:

    I generally don't feel comfortable with my girlfriends talking to her exboyfriends and i let them know how i feel. the 2 girls i have been in love with have respected my feelings and did stop talking to their ex-es since it wasn't a big deal to them. both of their ex-es were always calling at first but eventually got the message. even if the girl doesnt mean to cheat, most guys just have sex on the mind.
     
  14. Imagine if this situation were the other way around

    Him wanting to head out to Houston to see his long lost G/F I mean friend

    She would be furious with him for just thinking about it.
     

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