i miss her.. y is it so hard?

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  1. Juice

    Juice New Member

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    so u all saw my thread about the S.O. breaking up.. and i havent really talked to her majorily since wednesday of last week, but tonite its hitting me hard. i cant stop thinking about her.. OT, how can i get her back or get her off my mind?? alcohol does nothing, and doing nothing about it does nothing.. any suggestions?? :hsugh:
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    I can relate.
     
  3. aznh2oman

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    go out with friends and occupy yourself so you dont have time to think of her...
     
  4. LS Boy

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    go out and learn something new.

    i too broke up (i was the one the broke up with her) on wednesday---she'd put me thru alot and ive taken her back sooo many times. this time, i did a no contact. she tried contacting me thursday and friday but i didnt reply or picked up.

    now, im just out and spending more time with my friends (i barely see her anyways).
    also, this weekend...since i always wanted to STUNT on a motorcycle....thats what im doing to keep me occupied and its really good.


    so, i say find something you always want to do and spend time on that.


    good luck, its not easy but its life---we have to go thru it and move on.
     
  5. Juice

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    ^yea.. well i have always wanted to go skydiving! that would probably take my mind off it ;) but i should really be at work right now, cuz im late!
     
  6. SkyLeach

    SkyLeach Guest

    Responding to the thread title, not the thread:

    It's hard because you aren't getting any. Relax and take a cold shower, or release the tension using the handy method.

    Responding to the thread: loss is always hard. Just remember that no matter what you have lost, you have taken away far more in your heart and mind. That can never be taken from you. Cherish it and move on to your next experience.
     
  7. WeRdToYoMoThA

    WeRdToYoMoThA Girlies on Standby, Waiting to say Hi

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    same for me :hs:

    i miss her, but if she wanted to take me back, i wouldnt. im better off not dating her, but at the same time i feel miserable. I can't really explain it :dunno:. I put up with a lot of shit while we were dating, a lot of which i shouldnt have, and i dont ever want to be in a relationship like that again. However, when i see her at school or elsewhere, all i can think about is how nice it was when we were together. There were days when i didnt even want to know her name, let alone date her, and other days where the death of my own mother wouldnt wipe the smile off my face that was caused by her.

    It was such a terrible relationship
     
  8. Juice

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    LOL... :fawk:
    thanx man, that was funnay!
     

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