i might go to my ex's place tomorrow to "talk" v. wat do i do

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  1. Falconer

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    we talked on the phone today and she said "part of me wants to fix things but part of me wants to move on."

    wat

    im kinda nervous ::noes:


    im supposed to go over there at 7:30


    hooray awkwardness
     
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    how do you ever have any time to relax when all you do is seek drama, then analyze it?
     
  3. Falconer

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    i usually dont have drama, and then i can relax :big grin:
     
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    If you go over there tomorrow, you are going to set yourself back at square one with the pain.
     
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    uhh.. how about you just not fix it and move on :)
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

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  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Start from scratch.

    Tell her to completely open up about every single thing that bothers her about you, the relationship, etc.

    Then, it's your turn.
     
  9. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    Falconer, I swear we are on the same timeline as far as ex gf's go.

    My ex wants to "talk" when she gets back from that god forsaken island in August. :o
     
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  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why would you want to even consider talking to/seeing that bitch ever again?
     
  12. Falconer

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    Is that serious advice or is that I-hate-Falconer-and-want-him-to-fuck-up advice? :rofl:
     
  13. Pringles

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    Don't go? Do you have any self-worth?
     
  14. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    :bowrofl:

    Only reason I would want to is to finally come clean to all the shit she was hiding from me, and still is.
    But that will never happen. She's a bitch.
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: It's serious advice.

    You two obvious had communication issues. You both need to lay absolutely everything out on the table now if you want to consider getting back together and having it work.
     
  16. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I think she's being serious and I agree. Your ex was obviously hiding her feelings about a lot of things and she needs to be open and honest with you about how she feels about everything.

    Also, make sure she isn't just crawling back because things didn't work out with some other guy :o
     
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    Rule #1: Never listen to Midgetized.

    :mamoru:
     
  18. Falconer

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    bolded part :werd:
     
  19. Bacardi 151

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    Good luck man.
     
  20. ldaggerl

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    Its true when they say that the only time the girl will break up with you is because they have someone on the side already setup and ready to go. Happened to me with my ex's and I'm sure it will happen again. Only time they want to talk and work things out is because that guy was an ass or fell short when they promised so much and it all looked so good.
     
  21. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Until she is 100% sure she wants to fix things, you're just picking at a scab.
     
  22. saosko

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    good analogy.
     
  23. Abomb

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    dont fucking do it.


    and give us an update when you do go and do it
     
  24. Falconer

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    if I go:

    - I'll need to find some way of asking "so... this isn't cuz you just broke up with my rebound is it?"

    - what do I do when i get there? Hug? Kiss? Shake hands? High five? Howie Mandell fist bump? lulz.


    Regardless I will update the Vag with what happens.
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I vote don't go, but since we all know you are going, I vote fist bump.
     

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