So I met this cute guy at my campus about 3 months ago (through mutual friend) only just recently he started showing interest. We went to see forgetting Sarah Marshall (funny as hell) been to lunch, and out for sushi. Been having a great time with him, real sweet guy, funny, and cute. He always texts me good morning and always asks how my day is going and that he is thinking about me. He is more than ok about me having a child (he was with a girl who had 2 from 2 diff fathers, so I'm like a walk in the park for him) all in all I'm happy, I look forward to his texts.......... Now it gets sad. (Enter psycho ex bf, father of my child who's very existence threathens mine) Quick breakdown of what occured: psycho finds out about nice guy, psycho goes into fit of rage, calls me a whore and every other vulgar thing he can possibly think of, threathens my life and nice guys' life, threathens to kidnap my son etc etc. THEN after the psycho fest ends he breaksdown crying and begs me to come back.... Yeah I know WTF. I'm thinking I'd rather stab myself in the eye. I'm sad now because I have brought someone into all this and I feel bad for nice guy. I called nice guy, told him about psycho and said if he wanted to back away now he could and I won't hold it against him. He said absolutely not, he really liked me thought I was beautiful and said he even felt lucky I was giving him the time of day, also has 8 years of martial arts so I shouldnt worry. Felt alot better after that talk. I just feel like i can't have a normal private life with psycho always being in the pic. Like I mentioned before his presence threathens my very existence, he is a big shit talker but you never know with him. I feel lucky to have nice guy stick around through all this bull shit, don't know very many who would. Its been a rough week.